My wife and I have a good realtionship. I go and play cards with my friend sometimes. Sometimes my boy will bring his girlfriend along and she will bring her cousin along to (who is a female). Now, I am not trying to do anything with this girl. Someone told my wife that we were playing cards with females and now she want me to call her if I know they are going to be over. Should I call or should I tell AGAIN that I am not doing anything wrong and that she should trust me?
2006-08-05 09:15:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Call and keep the peace.
2006-08-05 09:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not doing anything wrong or thinking of doing anything wrong you should have no problem calling. Have some respect for your wife. And next time the "GIRLS" show up to play ask your wife if she would like to come as well. Shes still letting you go which is more than I would do.
2006-08-05 16:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by red-e03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she should trust you, but at the same time I can see why she would worry. What would calling her and letting her know what's up hurt her? And why does your friends girl always have to bring a friend...Is she trying to do a double date type thing...That just seems weird. If she is going to be bored at the card games then she needs to keep her asss at home and if she is playing and you need an extra partner then bring your wife or bring another male friend.
2006-08-05 16:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not doing anything wrong, besides playing cards then she has a trust issue. What is that going to do if you call her? Maybe you should take your wife along and make it a family night.
2006-08-05 16:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by winegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything about TRUST ME...this will definitely bring up some suspisions. Just tell her I'm going to so and so's house to play cards and thats it!!!! She should trust you enough to let you go and have some fun when she's not around...if she still insists on you calling , ask her to come along the next time you go there to play. She's either gonna drop it or go to see what the other girls look like...you know women and competition. Hell I know you work around women at work and you sure as hell are around them somewhere everyday...tell your old lady don't trip...
2006-08-05 17:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by PLAYA 4REAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is a card game worth destroying "peace in the valley?" You have to make that choice. She is obviously insecure with you and your card playing. How far do you want to torment her. How much damage do you want to your marriage.
My advice is to invite her to the game. If they're female ther then bring the wife. Then you have the best of both worlds.
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Good Luck
2006-08-05 16:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife should trust you but we females have this thing about when other women are around. lol We trust you,but we do not trust the other woman. If you have nothing to hide,call your wife. What's the harm? Scared your friends will call you names? So what. I would be more scared of my wife than of my friends. Good luck. lol lol
2006-08-05 16:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by mrsreadalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call. Because if you don't call her, and she finds out that they were over there, it will raise a big suspicion in her mind. Then you will have more problems in your relationship than just who joins you at your card games.
If all she wants is a phone call, take the 2 minutes and call her and tell her, hell, invite her over if that would make her happy.
2006-08-05 16:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by Panda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... If you feel that your relationship is just good, then call. Trust is an important element to all relationships. Without it, you really don't have one. So, maybe you should have a talk to your girl and maybe invite her to come with!
2006-08-05 16:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jáe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call. I mean If all it takes is a phone call to make her happy then make the phone call.It's not going to hurt you or coast you a dime.I mean honesty whats the big deal?
2006-08-05 16:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not doing anything wrong it wont hurt to call. Because if she finds out you didn't call then it will make her think other wise.
2006-08-06 02:05:31 · answer #11 · answered by mmjuarez4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋