i am a single father of 2 little girls and i met this family about a year ago and we seem to get along fine for most of the time
and i ask them if they coild watch my kids ounce in a while and i would pay them 15.00 dollar a hour last week they told me they had some very serious money problem and that they had to borrow some money froma familey meber to pay rent this familey has a lot of money problem new house car payment credit card insurance and 2 kids well you get the point.well any way i call they up yesterday and ask them if they would watch my kids so i could go to a doctor appt.and they said no lol.and this morning i call them up again and ask them because i dont feel good and they said because they are going out to garage sale this morning and spending money they dont have when they could be makeing money what is wrong with people these days??? please help me
2006-08-05 09:03:55 · 23 answers · asked by little ace 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FIRST I WOULD TELL YOU THAT YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE STEADY TO WATCH YOUR KIDS.i had the same situation and now i have a day care provider that cant say no because shes under a contract. i would recomend you do the same.
2006-08-05 10:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by super girl 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
My husband seems to have. Or has he? He became dumped at your step of an orphanage contained in the late 40's, and became very badly abused before being despatched to a operating farm the position he became abused back, by technique of ladies, for decades. he's so tollerant and style and beneficiant yet well-knownshows it demanding to expose emotion. Infact, i have not in any respect considered it. in spite of each and everything of that he went into the army and then the fireplace service. he's sometimes pronounced the youngsters he got here across yet nevertheless confirmed no emotion. he's so calm about each and everything, has no concern of something and not in any respect, ever cries. ought to you concentrate on this a difficulty? i imagine perchance it may well be. on the different hand i became abused by technique of my mom and cry regularly because of insecurities. this is a difficulty yet i do not extremely imagine it should be cured as such. Its stuck there always. Its how i take care of it that counts. Am i coping with it by technique of crying and my husband isn't? Or are we both hopeless circumstances? Ha ha.
2016-10-15 11:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the kids away from these losers. Why should you care if they have enough money of not. Find a reliable child care provider, and take charge of the children unless you have to work, or for that occasional night out. Not feeling good is not a reason to hire a babysitter.
2006-08-05 14:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like that are only interested in one thing, material items and big money, you know the old saying, keep up with the jones.a day will come that all there spending will catch up to them. besides, do you really want people like that watching your kids, they pay more attention to sales, than they would your kids.
2006-08-05 09:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just don't want to be bother. With some one Else kids I just wouldn't ask any more if there that hard up for money then they will come to you.In the mean time find a new sitter
2006-08-05 09:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new baby sitter. Do not concern yourself with these people. It's none of your business. For 15 bucks an hour, just about anybody would watch your kids.
2006-08-05 09:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your problem. That is their problem. Your problem is that you need to learn how to use punctuation and capital letters so you can type like a halfway intelligent person. That way, at least people who read things you type will not think you are an idiot.
Enjoy your kids. They are only being loaned to you by God. They actually belong to him. Enjoy this temporary gift. It is a joy.
2006-08-05 09:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I'm sorry you have to go through all this,but if you can i would look for someone else to take care of your kids if you can.They seem like there not responsible and would you want your kids in that atmosphere
2006-08-05 09:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,what people do with their money is their business. Just because you think they need money is no reason to think that they will watch your children whenever you have to do something. Wanting to help someone is admirable,but it sounds like you are only helping them so as you can help yourself. (cheap babysitters). Whatever problems they have,just be glad it is not you.
2006-08-05 09:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by mrsreadalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people like spending money they don't have. forget about them taking care of your kids they got the money and they are not going to care about what they say they would give u in return wich was taking care of ur kids
2006-08-05 09:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by burbuja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just like that. Or they might not want to watch your kids anymore and just dont know how to tell you. Im not sure, thats strange
2006-08-05 09:08:05 · answer #11 · answered by kristi_b00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋