Ladies Only, please: She said I was too big?

Question

I can't win. We have a good personal relationship, but she hates sex, prefers 5 minutes and done. She was willing to have a limited sexual relationship, but after we tried that, she said I was too big and I hurt her too much. I always hear women complain that thier man is too small, and this is the first time in my life I've heard that I was too big (most women appreciate that). what is your opinion?

Answer 1

seriously sounds like the issues go way deeper than that...no pun intended...if she hates sex...there is a reason for it...do you try to find ways to satisfy her FIRST?...i mean by clitoral stimulation...NOT thrusting and pounding like a friggin' animal...be gentle dude...i don't know exactly how big you are...or how petite she is...but you have to be gentle with some women...we all don't like to be "pounded"...go slow...make her comfortable...take it easy...try different positions...get her worked up first...don't just stick it in...kiss her thighs...travel to other places...explore her body...find out what she likes and doesn't like...she may have deep seeded issues related to sex...talk to her about that...tell her it's okay to tell you how she feels...something is wrong...trust me...i am a woman...you are either being too rough...or too careless...or you are not paying enough attention to her needs...good luck to you...sounds like you will need it

Answer 2

Though it's possible for size to be an obstacle, either too big or too small, it's something that can be worked around if both people are willing. It sounds like she's so NOT into the idea of a sexual relationship with you that any kind of problem is going to be too big, as it were.

Answer 3

if she loves you she should be willing to try so she can get use to it maybe it isnt about the size maybe shes just frigid and dont like sex because you did say you guys do it for 5 minutes right i figure if shes allowing 5 minutes and you are actually penetrating her then she can handle the size maybe theres something else going on there but hey call me if it doesnt work out chao!!

Answer 4

Try a lot of foreplay. Sometimes if we don't get worked up enough and wet enough our guys can really hurt our insides. Next time you go for it make sure it isn't right after she finishes her period. We tend to be more sensitive at that time, inside I mean. If you love her and want to be with her you will figure out a way that both of you can get pleasure.

Answer 5

try rings. Some women have a shorter birth canal then other. Make sure its stretchable. And no it won't hurt or inhibit-er you. Talking from personal experience and still going with that person

Answer 6

sometimes too big is too big. were you excessively attracted to her when you were having intercourse. I know it has happened to me that I wear something to bed that attracts my husband so much that when we get down to the nitty gritty, he seems a little bigger than usual. It has happened on other occasions with other partners before my husband as well. maybe you were just really turned on that your penis was very engorged and it hurt her. I know most women do want to feel their partner's penis nice and round inside them, but sometimes I have to let my husband cool down because he is way to big for me to handle. good luck

Answer 7

Never heard that problem before. Maybe you should try some different intimate things to ease the way.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

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Answer 10

from my understanding you've got a problem with size you must know there is no a big vagina or a small penis. the vagina is a selfadjacant