She and I love each other, but even though she always has double and triple climaxes, she just doesn't want it as frequently as before. It used to be that we'd fool around four or five times a day, and now it's definately a lot less. I mean, I could understand if we were like 50 or something, but I'm 23 and she's 20. It started just after we got pregnant with our first child, and now that he's here sex is definately on the down side. Girls, what do I do? Any good ideas? She says that it's because that she doesn't feel good about herself, but she looks HOT! Seriously, I just don't know what to do. I've tried everything.
2006-08-05 08:15:20 · 8 answers · asked by FROZT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should make sure it is not physical first. Cysts on ovaries can be as large as golf balls and can make sex very painful -- i.e., the feeling of being 'too big." You can offer to take her to the doctor, and go in with her to make sure there is nothing physical. A doctor can also discuss the "size" issue after examination. Something as simple as not going in all the way or using a donut may work.
Also, you may know this, but women do not generally climax easiest with a male pounding away inside them. Anatomically, insertion is generally most pleasurable when the clitoris is stimulated simultaneously.
Romance her. Set a table with candles -- make dinner, or if you have to ... serve take-out on nice dishes. Add soft music. For sex, have the lights turned down -- maybe more candles so she is less inhibited, rub her back, touch her hair, and work on her orally or perhaps have a vibrator handy if she has one.
Remember that we do not go from 0-60 in 5.4 seconds, couples in their early 20's experience that transition from teen to adulthood and they often think there is something "wrong." The hormones are just evening out, and you are simply becoming adults. Women take more maintenance than teen-age girls. Just take your time with her. If she rejects you, wait a while and try again. Be gentle in your persistence and make her feel beautiful and loved.
All the best,
~j
2006-08-05 09:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by J A 1 · 8⤊ 3⤋
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2016-05-22 14:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think she is not being truthful guy. How can all of a sudden your c*** be too big when you both had an active sex life in the beginning? And on top of this ....assuming that she gave birth vaginally she should be capable of having a healthy sex life with you again after all this. And even if she had a C-section things should still be OK between you all.Something else might be the problem.......was it a difficult pregnancy?
2006-08-05 08:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by ghipsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you have a child your sometimes exhausted taking care of the baby getting up at all hours of the night. has she kept on unwanted weight? or have alot of stretch marks? sometimes your sex drive goes down after having a baby.
2006-08-05 08:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a child,many women are sort of put off that..but you have 2 tell her how good she looka and make her feel the same way as u do..hav u tried talking to her?mayb that will help?
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