2006-08-05 08:04:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well if you got time to spred them legs and have a children then guess you just going to have to get off your butt and make somethign for your life so you have take chare of your kid, kids.
2006-08-05 08:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by gogo69er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get legal help and get the father to make child support payments under the law. That will take some effort. If you're 'homeless' as you say, then at least you are not on the streets (I assume) or you wouldn't be on a computer and on the internet. I would be grateful to whomever is being hospitable to you, and stay with that person, hopefully family, and ask for their help. You should also try to get a job to support yourself and the baby. It's hard, but where there is a will, you can find a way. Another option-if you can't support your baby, you might consider giving him or her up for adoption so that someone can provide for the baby.
2006-08-05 15:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i asume you are at a friends house using a computer or libary.
1. time to let that dead beat go.
2. if you can go back home to your moms and tell her you are sorry and in need of help.
if by chance you cant do that go to your local church or shelter they always help moms get there life together .
they can help with with education , Finding a job,and the can proabably help you get into goverment housing, and they even help with caregivers to watch the baby wile you work and study.
you can do it alone if your family wont help. belive me it will be best if you let him go . i do understand you love him and all. but you must understand that it aint about you and him now it's about that baby and what that baby needs . and that is a home with a loving parent clothes and food .
2006-08-05 15:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by mary_llinas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going to have to agree with the first answerer on this one...if you are homeless...you should be perhaps looking for work...rather than asking questions here...as far as the baby's daddy...probably isn't wise to depend on him for anything...take matters into your own hands...there are lots of programs out there for single mothers with young children...take advantage of them...that is what they are there for...it will help you get on your feet...and always remember that you do not need a man to take care of you...you can do it yourself...i would still like to know though...how in the world you have access to a computer if you are homeless???...where are your priorities???...no one really has the answers except you...sounds like you have a lot of work to do...good luck to you...and please take care of your little one
2006-08-05 15:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK guys/gals the homeless shelter has computers, so doe's the library. any ways girl can you go to mom's ? leave the deadbeat, get a job, get your life together at least for the sake of the child. go to the welfare they will help until you better yourself, and they will set up child support so when he doe's get a job he'll have to support his child.in some states there's w,i,c.[ its vouchers for food for the baby]
2006-08-05 15:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are homeless but you have a computer and time to answer and ask questions on yahoo. Hmm...where are the priorities?
2006-08-05 15:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you at the library using the computer...?
You need to find a good home for that baby.
2006-08-05 15:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obviously not helping so stop worrying about him and focus your attention on getting a home for that baby. You can deal with him later.
2006-08-05 15:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Monique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the baby to your momma house and dont let the father go , go find a job, and go tell his momma that hes not being a man
2006-08-05 15:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by darkling1k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were do you plug your computer to if your homless?the phonebox?
2006-08-05 15:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by sammydeea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋