I have a full time job and a family and will be starting my freshman year of college. I am nervous and wondering if others have done the same. Any advice?
2006-08-05 08:04:16 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Sweet♥ 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
I can't answer from the perspective of someone who has done it, but I have been thinking of getting some more education, so I can relate.
I think you've already done the really hard part, which is simply making the decision and enrolling. Once you're in, college has a structure to it that you can follow. Just show up for classes, and everything else will work out.
Remember that the big advantage you have over the younger students is that unlike them, you know about life and what you want out of it.
The problem for people going to college right out of high school is that they are too young to appreciate it. They take classes and party for four years and then have no idea what to do next.
You will be able to really appreciate your college experience. You will know how what you are learning will fit into your life goals. You'll be able to get the most out of your education, and not have to look back later in regret, saying "If only I had majored in this, or if only I had studied that..."
A lot of working people would love to have the chance to go back to school and do it right this time. Consider yourself lucky.
2006-08-05 08:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yah. It is so different. I dropped out after 1 1/2 before. I spent more time doing the social part of college and gave up. Now I have a big family and want to finish my teaching degree. I have been back to school now for a couple of years. There are times I get so discourged but I know going back is the right thing to do.
Best advice:
1. Don't put stuff off. With a family it is always hard to cram for a test or pull an all nighter to finish a paper.
2. Find a quiet area to study either after the kids are in bed or where they know not to get loud.
3. Check and see if your school has a club for non-traditional students. You can make some great friends that way.
4. If you get discouraged, remember why you wanted to go back in the first place.
5. Set grade goals for yourself. It makes me work harder.
Good Luck!!
2006-08-05 08:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by mommato4boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I haven't but my husband has and I'm in my senior year of college. He was in the marine's and he just recently finished his freshman year. From the experience that I have had with him, the best advice I can give is to be patient and hang in there. Most of the students who are at college are there because mommy and daddy are paying for everything, so they don't take college very seriously. They will get on your nerves because they slack off, party and show you disrespect at times (especially the frat kids). That's where you will need the patience. Also you will have to get back into the groove of studying, taking good notes, and dealing with some difficult professors. If you're not a good note taker, bring a hand held tape recorder to class because some teachers talk really really fast. I'm very glad that you're going back to school. Hang in there, you will be just fine. Oh one more thing, balance your time well...get a planner and set a certain time of the day, an hour or two so you can focus on your studying, let your family know that you are not to be disturbed and let them help out with the chores around the house so you can free up that time. Good Luck!!
2006-08-05 08:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by Elora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 31 and will graduate with an associate's in accounting this December from Kent State University. They have great programs here that acomodate all kinds of schedules, and even have classes on Saturdays. If the college has a bachelor's degree that I can apply my associate's to, I'll get that as well, otherwise I'll go into the legal assisting program here.
Here are two big pieces of advice:
1. If you can use your work experience in your studies, that is a big advantage, especially in business classes.
2. Making some friends in your classes is very helpful - you can form a study group for tests, which is much better and more fun than studying alone.
Enjoy your time in college!
2006-08-05 08:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by krissydahs93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not most effective is it k, I'd propose it. Many individuals move to school correct after prime tuition in view that that is what "each person" does. But if you do not real understand what you are all in favour of, going to school instantly after prime tuition is usually a waste of money and time. Taking a little bit time without work to make a decision what you desire to do may end up in a a lot more profitable school revel in.
2016-08-28 12:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not quite the same but I went through a gap of several years between my BA and my MS, and another between the MS and my PD (which I'm still working on). It does take some time to get your head back in the Getting Educated game but it's worth your while in the end, especially if your family is supportive.
2006-08-05 08:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Claude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know lots of people that have done that. They really seem to enjoy going back to school and being in classes with the younger generations. I wish you luck.
2006-08-05 08:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg I am 45 and starting Thursday,first class is called "Adults in Transition"teaches you how to get back in the swing ,20 hour class.Then class starts in the Fall.Im a nervous wreck!!! EMAIL ME mystravens2002@yahoo
2006-08-05 08:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by mystravens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah done the same here. just make sure your family stills knows they are priority one.
2006-08-05 08:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by jonessunrunner1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋