i just found out my gf is really a guy. a very cute, sexy-looking guy when dressed as a girl. she says she's full time living as a girl, but will never have the final cut. i'm already in love with her, but this has put me in a turmoil. i thought we were ready to have sex, but this kind of puts a wrinkle in those plans. she refuses to wear a condom, what's a guy to do? oh, and does this mean i'm gay?
2006-08-05 08:03:59 · 15 answers · asked by bakbiter 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
haha whoa!! So if you think he/she is hot when he/she is in guy form...then you're a fudgepacker...haha. I always get tricked when Montel Williams has those trannys on his show and you have to guess what he/she is...pretty annoying. If you're cool banging weiners then stay I guess. Does he/she have nice b00bies?? Thats pretty key...haha. I dont know. You're gay man.
2006-08-05 13:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
Well as I always say love is love and love the girl! tell her if she want's sex she'll need to wear a condom and maybe you'll like gay sex with a 'girl' and that will be your thing. It could really happen. Just try it out!
2006-08-05 08:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i wuz watching a movie on Lifetime called 'A Girl like Me' its a true story about a boy living as a girl because he didn't feel right as a boy. he fell in love w/ a man who didn't know he was like that and when he found out he dumped her. when the other guys who he had flirted with found out the killed her- they tortured her for 5 hours then buried her. no, it does not make u gay cuz u didn't know. if u want to break up w/ her do it really nicely- dont make her feel bad for what she is. AND REMEMBER, ACCEPT HER FOR WHO SHE IS
2006-08-05 08:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Hello_Kitty_Lover<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with them if you think you love them. This just means you are an honest person. It's the person not their sex that matters. If the condom is important insist upon it, if they love you in return they will do it for you.
2006-08-05 08:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Shannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is Love
2006-08-05 23:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by doldemite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't mean you are gay. but this could lead to the possible lifestyle if this is what you are wanting. if your girlfriend doesn't want to have the final part removed you could choose to stay but if this scares you you may want to part as friends till you know what you want
2006-08-05 08:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by sanmaria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with that person then technically you would be considered gay. But anyway just follow your heart.
2006-08-05 08:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by Love My Soldier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions:
Do you still love her?
Does she love you the same way?
Does anyone else know of her "condition"?
If the answer is the same as before you knew, love her as much as you did.
2006-08-05 09:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't gay because you thought she was a girl.
2006-08-05 08:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Chels ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhhhhhhhhh...
2006-08-05 08:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Someone 2 good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋