I have had self-confidence issues my entire life. I don't think im at all good looking. I want to believe in myself. Help!!
2006-08-05 07:58:17 · 8 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
If you are a "beautiful" person on the inside, it will be easier to believe you are on the outside, too! Play up those features which you feel are your strongest, whether it's your eyes, or a nice neck or shoulders, or hair, or cheekbones, or lips. By enhancing those, then the ones you aren't so comfortable with won't seem so noticeable.
And believe me, you aren't the only one out there who has trouble with this. I think it probably affects many people at one point or other during their lives.
Just be interested in other people, take the focus off of yourself. Looks aren't what will make you a lovable person or nice to be around in the long run. It's how you behave towards others and whether you love/respect yourself that are important.
2006-08-05 08:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep telling your self that you are becautiful, because you are. What you can do to help is find your favorite feature & play it up, like if you like your eyes the most play with them to make them stand out more. But really you just need to believe that you are beautiful.
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2006-08-05 08:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sedona Sunrise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the only way to believe in yourself, is to focus on why. Like, if other poeple say you arent pretty, think of it like this. Theyre just jelous. Otherwise, just start to think different, and hold your head up high! REmember, by thinking that way, only you are hurting yourself.
2006-08-05 08:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by pikasurfergyrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what I do. i flow on the cyber web, and discover photos of folk who i believe look worse than me, or people who've much less of their existence than I do, and then i glance in the reflect and assure myself that i'm no longer so undesirable. Or, i glance at photos of celebrities( who look very surprisingly on exhibit screen), and look at them devoid of makeup. in case you hit upon a minimum of one that seems worse than you, you do no longer ought to experience as undesirable anymore. And if human beings inform you you're surprisingly, that's already a competent ingredient, with the aid of fact in case you have been hideous, human beings does no longer inform you, or they could in basic terms inform you you're surprisingly in case you requested them. additionally, work together in hobbies or different activities which will make you experience greater effectual as guy or woman, and that way, you will no longer care as lots approximately seems anymore. purely be smart, yet chortle and smile lots, and look happy, and you will glow devoid of attempting. people who're happy and valuable have an inner glow to them that a tragic guy or woman does;t have, and it makes them look appealing.
2016-10-01 12:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same issue, but other ppl seem to think I'm pretty...u just have to wake up one day and except yourself in your own time...no one can tell u how, u have to do it yourself!
2006-08-05 08:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask people how you look since we can't tell how you look its a little hard to answer
2006-08-05 08:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Hawtman1092 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not making..its believing..its all in believing in yourself and not what the world wants us to believe...the heart never lies
2006-08-05 08:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by torimon79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask people if u are good looking
2006-08-05 08:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋