i've heard of stories of girls that they tell their parents, and their relationship becomes stronger. i would like to tell her, it happened about a year a go with my ex, no i'm 16, i am active with my new boyfriend we've been together for 9 months. i'm a good student, i get awesome grades, i'm very advanced with school, and i'm respectful. i'm not some little hoe, i just happen to fall in love. if you were to see me on the street you wouldn't be able to think anything of me other than i'm some kind of nerd and plus i look like i am 12. i don't want it to hurt my mom, i want to be honest, and i don't want her to think i'm dirty because i've practically have slep with as much guys she has slep with. i love her, and i'm a good daughter or should i just keep inside, and tell her when i'm about to get married. opinions from mothers would GREATLY BE APPRECIATED.. :P
2006-08-05 07:58:12 · 4 answers · asked by ...i <3 Xavi... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am a mother of a 17 yr old dauther . And she told me when she first had sex. It hurts i'm not going to lie it hurts for a mother to hear this. But it was a good thing she did we talked about it and we talked about birthcontrol and Aids and other things. I have always been open and brutaly honest with my kids and i guess that why she came to me . i dont know How your mother is with you . If she is stricked if she is open and honest . But it would be better if you let her know that you are sexually active . becouse if by some chance you get pregnant she wont be overwelmed with all kinds of emotions becouse she thuoght her little girl was still little. As long as you show her you are responsable adult . I think it will be ok .
2006-08-05 08:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by mary_llinas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the relationship you have with your mother. my mom and i are very close, but i still didn't want to tell her, but when she asked if i was sexually active, i didin't lie to her. it's a very normal part of growing up.
2006-08-05 15:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her. i respect u alot cuz most kids dont even care. best of luck
2006-08-05 15:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old to the boy, is the question??????????????????????
2006-08-05 15:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋