Im asking this question because there is more to just laying down with someone and having sex something you could fall in love.....With there sex than them....
2006-08-05 07:41:59 · 20 answers · asked by Elizabeth B 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
why do women want love before sex?
2006-08-05 07:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stop all men are pig crap. women (like your girlfriends & sisters) started all the mess by using sex for gain. ( you sat there laughing and joking when they told you) but now you're mad because you want something and everything is destroyed. ( why buy the cow when the milk is free) women use the word love & committment and have no clue what it means. I work with kids and had some as young as 10 having sex because the boy was cute. What do you think some of these goals for young men will be if at 20 years they sleep with at least 50 girls. they will only use flowers and poems if it means more Pu**y. Only ask that question, if you treated guys fairly and not laughed in a guys face because he said he like you. Yeah right you want love. There are still some of guys like that. (i am still but not for long) But it will be easier to find herpes.
2006-08-05 16:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by QUICKWIT 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
generally men have the idea somewhere in their head that they have to test the engine before they buy the car....in a manner of speaking. Some want love before sex, but those guys are few and far between. Love means commitment and sex doesn't necessarily mean love, so it's easier on them. Plus the average guy gets an erection at least every couple hours especially when they're young. They're programmed to sew their oats.
2006-08-05 07:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Elora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like to turn that around and ask why women want love before sex!
If you meet a man and he only sees you as a convenient sex partner, don't deliberately misunderstand him or spin romantic tales; dump him. Perhaps another time, after he's been around the block a little and matured, he'll come back heart in hand.
Otherwise, he'll simply see it as a contest to pretend to give you what you want in order to get what he wants. Not good for you at all.
2006-08-05 07:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just individuality. Generalization may not be the best thing. To me Love is a beautiful feeling. Sharing a coffee together on rainy day or eating burger at burger king while driving on i 95 on a weekend or may be kissing in the car with love sons on seems a better idea to me personally. But yes for some SEX comes first. They are desperate A**es. May you find someone who would really treat you like a Queen. MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!
2006-08-05 07:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rahul S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am one of those men but I rarely ever am told I am rushing things. Funny how that happens when a woman wants you just as much or more then you want them. There are men who have no problem waiting on a woman. I know some of them. Unfortunately a lot of them even if involved in committed relationships seem to always be played for suckers. They're choices are nothing that I envy but men like you claim you want; do exist.
2006-08-05 16:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by NOIR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do. It is however a lot easier to get sex than to fall in love. Sometimes, men don't want love at all. It might take too much work.
2006-08-05 07:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by alibababbb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are pigs. I am older than most of the users here but in my day i was an old fashion guy and would NEVER be one of love em' and leave em' kind of guys.I would always put her feelings above my lust. Women are Gods gift to men and they are not to be treated like they are just a toy for men to use and then throw away.
2006-08-05 07:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by bullticky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men have been gifted with two brains...the first head thinks and the other just acts!! hahaha! They say that if we were to pick an appliance to relate to with sex -- men are microwaves - instant and fast - where women are like crockpots - slowcooking!
2006-08-05 10:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by tropical breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are some of ya females after men and the sex questions. Like you never want this sex and we drag you into it. You drive pleasure outa it too.
2006-08-05 08:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by A.j. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because orgasm feels good. It's intense and erotic to have sex.
Hormones rage and needs feel as if they are screaming to be
fed. Because men are essentially weak. And it's accepted as
the norm.
Too bad. Because waiting until you know your partner is sooooo
essential to a long-term relationship. My partners have always
waited until I was ready. We were fully in love- and it was
earth-moving. My current boyfriend still fantasizes about our
first time and how he earned it.
Awesome!
2006-08-05 08:32:56 · answer #11 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋