My gf takes 4 hours to get ready to go out pulls out all her hairs paints her face beautifully and wears sexy clothes and does nice hairstyle but when we get home she has to change and wash her face before I can touch her. She says I must like HER and not her clothes and make up etc she doesnt want to feel like a prostitute. I must like her hairy cos theyre HER hairs and I must like no makeup and tracksuit why cant I like her when she 'prepares herself'?
2006-08-05 07:32:40 · 13 answers · asked by eroru 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
This is something that really she needs to give you an answer to, if she's willing to; our opinions probably won't be right.
Clearly she wants to make a good impression on others when she goes out; I suggest that she may have an image problem if she associates how she dresses up with being "like a prostitute" and continues to dress that way when going out.
I do say it is important to be able to accept the other person whether they look "fabulous" or not as it would be hard to maintain the "style" all the time.
I think people in a relationship can tend to take one another for granted, and not wish to spend the time to "look good" for the person whom they're with.
Ask her why she goes to such an effort for people who may not even care about her, unlike yourself.
2006-08-05 07:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you must see her beauty before all the makeup goes on ,some men hate makeup on a woman or maybe the change she goes through makes you feel like she is a stranger.
Why not once just try to let her keep it on when you get home see what happens.
Maybe the makeup smell annoys you or taste of lipstick .
2006-08-05 07:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like ladies without make-up more than with! If they need to fill the cracks and paint out all their blemishes there must be something wrong!
2006-08-05 07:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by roy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one reason why she might try to look gorgeous when yall go out is maybe she likes alot of attention or maybe she is insecure. When yall go home and she takes all that off is maybe she feels comfortable with you seeing her like that.
2006-08-05 07:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Murdah-Man 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Beacuse a woman who takes care of her self has better self image
2006-08-05 07:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mars L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she knows you love her and will find her beautiful no matter wot...so may think that she doesnt need to put so much effort trying to look beautiful to you. but to other people, she wants show how beautiful she is..or even she gets satisfaction from getting guy's attention.
2006-08-05 21:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Taxi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm and..she doesnt mean prostitute...but she likes to be gourgeous for you and represent you when the two of youu are in public..ok,who are you?
2006-08-05 07:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by lins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes her feel good about herself!
2006-08-05 07:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by N25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your point here?
Are you jealous of her looking nice or do u think it's wrong?
2006-08-05 07:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ GOTH CHICK♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She prolly wants you to love
her for her - naturally not fake
& dolled up .
2006-08-05 17:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by ASHLEY MARiiE <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋