I am 20 years old my sister is 26 has been trying to get pregnant for over 2 years now. I just had a baby baby boy on july 10. She and I got pregnant at the same time. Our due dates was a few days apart but she lost the baby at 3 months. Now she's had a hard time dealing with it. Mostly because her chances of getting pregnant again are low. Her doctors have told her since we was younger the chances of her havin a child is very little. She gets so upset over it all. And I've ran out of ways to help her deal with the lost and the trouble of getting pregnant. What's the best thing to do to help her keep her hopes up that when God is ready she will have a baby?
2006-08-05 07:22:52 · 7 answers · asked by Sondra 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
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Make sure she is totally taking care of the physical things one can do, then let God handle the rest, tell I have sent a prayer her way also!
2006-08-05 07:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by Silva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just show her how much you love her and pray for her regularly. Let her know you are there to support her. Maybe you can do some research (like you are now) and find out different methods she might want to try. Relaxation and not being stressed is a big key to getting pregnant. Another, yet drastic and well-thought-out possibility is that you could offer to be her surrogate if she needs you. But pray first, consult with a counselor and make sure you can do this. I wish you both the best.
2006-08-05 07:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being supportive and being there for her. It is very hard to deal with wanting to have a family and not being able to, especially when everyone around you seems to be having kids with no problem. Just pray for her and make sure she knows you are there for her.
Has she tried going to a fertility specialist or a reproductive endocrinologist? Both of those doctors deal with women who have trouble conceiving. Since your sister is still young she does have a good chance of becoming a mom - she just might need a little help from modern medicine.
2006-08-05 07:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure it must be really hard to deal with this kind of situation, especially when she is around you and your new baby. my sis and i started trying at the same time too. however she never got pregnant, even after taking fertility meds. she got to the point that she just gave up. guess what? a few monthes later she was pregnant. ive heard of this happening to several people. when they get to the giving up part, it happens. they seem to just be thinking and trying to hard. best of luck to her and u with your new little one. they are the best thing in the world.
2006-08-05 08:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by krc7997 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just support her! Love her! And Console Her! It is hard to have faith now days, but God is still here. Just keep reminding her that God loves her and when the moment is right, she will be blessed.
2006-08-05 07:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jáe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep encouraging her and telling her that since everything happens for a reason maby this just isn't right for her yet but it may be right later in her life
2006-08-05 07:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by elemenopee. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her play with ur baby she will relax a bit ask her to be happy this will help her in conciving soon
2006-08-05 09:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by simmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋