it's mostly mental, but exercise helps. You can inspire others to feel sexy, by admiring and appreciating certain things.
Sometimes we have so much "noise" going on that it interferes by blocking our sexual thinking, or clouding our perception of ourselves. This noise comes from responsibilities, obligations, frustrations, self-doubt, children, worries, and all sorts of stuff.
Making a conscious effort to clear this noise and focusing on what's right, good, and validating in our lives, helps to make room for our sexual thinking. It takes concentration...
SOmetimes simple compliments can inspire your partner's positive thoughts about themself, and increase their desire for you. "I love it when you do this...." "......you drive me crazy when you..."no one else has ever made me feel this...." etc.
Insecurities create the most noise in our minds, and it helps to remember that no matter how bad something is, someone else has it worse. So no matter how perfect we try to be, there is always somebody more fabulous. Try to appreciate what's good, and focus less on what's not so good.
Good luck, take care!
2006-08-05 07:13:42
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answered by pandora the cat 5
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Proper diet & exercise is always a good way to start. Being in good health and good physical shape is a great way to increase one's sexual appetite & drive.
Not working? A trip to the doctor may be in order.
2006-08-05 13:59:20
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answered by My Evil Twin 7
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Stop masturbating so much. Eat healthier. Exercise regularly. There are also all kinds of Rx drugs out there to increase libido.
2006-08-05 13:57:26
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answered by cannon1977 3
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its all mental, dont rush , tease a lot more, rubbing touching, it will be a lot more intense, it will increase when that is mastered
2006-08-05 13:58:07
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answered by sonny 3
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Hennessey and weed
2006-08-05 13:57:38
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answered by Murdah-Man 1
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by dating me
2006-08-05 13:55:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Get a pet!
2006-08-05 13:58:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Find someone else.
2006-08-05 13:56:32
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answered by pickle head 6
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men don't have the problem
women....nobody knows
2006-08-05 14:06:04
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answered by Dwight D J 5
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they go slow
2006-08-05 13:59:33
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answered by tan_kaa_milan 3
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