ok, i am a christian gurl! love jesus with all of my heart...i am 16. i would do anything 4 God. i love to help people, and to listen to their problems and fears, and give advice to others. but here is where i am in a delima...i want to help others, but yet in my own life i struggle with anorexia. it comes on and off, like one day i love the way i look, then the next i hate myself and starve myself. how can i be such a strong christian gurl, yet still be able to give my life over to God? i have nobody in life to talk to...i feel so lonely!
2006-08-05 06:51:32 · 7 answers · asked by i will be your friend! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i do go to church..an assembley of God. i love jesus...i cant stress that enough...i just need somebody to lend an ear to me...anyone!
2006-08-05 07:04:47 · update #1
so if anyone wouldnt mind to lend an ear...can i talk to someone? i have experienced so much trauma...please
2006-08-05 07:07:00 · update #2
also i want to add...i want to talk to a stranger, because everyone i do talk to...they dont keep things confedential...
2006-08-05 07:18:53 · update #3
You need to talk to get some help for the anorexia before you get sick. Talk to someone you trust at school or at church if you can't talk to your parents. People who want to give to others often neglect their own needs. You can't be of service to others unless you take care of yourself, though. We are all human, Christian or not, and we all have physical and emotional needs. You sound like a very kind and sensitive person, and you need to find someone to talk to about your own feelings. If you can't talk to your mom, is there an aunt, or an older sister, or a family friend that you can talk to? It's not only OK to seek help - God gave you the intelligence to see that you need some assistance so that you can continue to serve him. Good luck!
2006-08-05 07:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by sonomanona 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am glad to see that you love God. As far as your dilemma I think you need to seek out counseling. You say that attend church, so you could talk with your pastor, youth leader, assistant pastor, or even an elder. Youth leader are generally more equipped to deal with the problems of teens.How much you love God is not going to "skate" you through life. We as Christians have our share of problems just like everyone else. Just talk with someone to help get you through it, and pray about it.
2006-08-05 14:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a great person. so i will give you advice, ok dont starve your self if you do it to much then somthing might happen to you, and then you would not be good to god or your parents. So on those days that you hate your self call someone funny and somone who can make you fell better. finde a hobby that makes you happy. and finde somthing you can compiment your self on, it will be o.k. oh also on those days you hate your self just take deep brethes oh and eat on hose days too. (you need to eat every day) but dont eat to much that you dont look big.
That is what god and jesus would want for you
2006-08-05 14:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be your Faith in wanting to help others is very good and Nobel in your heart don't give up that thought maybe you can use your anorexia to show others how you can still keep on going and help others over come what ever pains them in there life they say god works in many ways maybe this is one of them by helping others you may help your self and don't feel lonely remember god is allways with you so how can you be lonely right ???
good luck allways ok
2006-08-05 13:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are your parents or gaurdians.\
if you can not talk to them go to the church.
the church can guide you.
also try talking to your school counsilor, they may have numbers of hotline you could call. there are plenty of people out there that can help. you just need to be strong enough to ask for help.
good luck and may god bless you
2006-08-05 13:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by kag6667 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple. contact me at kiong_90@yahoo.com. although i may not be a christian, i would terribly love to help u. loneliness isn't good and trust me i know...........anyway, a helper sure does need a helper so if u wanna speak to a stranger, here i am a stranger and my ear can always be borrowed by anyone anywhere anytime... have fun with it and good luck
ps: please only take one ear as i need the other for other people!! thanks... = P
2006-08-06 07:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by crazy dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you will do "ANYTHING" for god
2006-08-05 13:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋