I have been working 10 hour days and saturday overtime to get more money in for me and my bf and he said because we havent spent any time together this week He said to me 'saturday when you come home from work we'll do something, and spend all weekend together.' When I got back, he wasn't at home, and I phoned him, and he went out with his brother instead and were getting lunch. Should I be annoyed that he didnt give me a second thought?
2006-08-05 06:30:47 · 14 answers · asked by leffers55 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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You feel what you feel, there is nothing 'good' or
'bad' in feeling anything, it is how you react that
is the important thing. Even saying that, annoyance
/ anger is a natrual reaction to being let down /
abandoned, so go ahead feel what you feel...
In your case here, for me, the other important thing
is;
... Is this a pattern of behaviour with him ?...
If so maybe the relationship needs looking at...
2006-08-05 22:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes that was HIS idea, not yours. Yell at him!! Dont have sex with him this weekend! In fact, go check into a hotel, and give yourself a nice break, alone. Go to a spa and get a massage, and spent the night in a hotel, by yourself. If your boyriend has a half of a brain, he will learn his lesson from this, and not do this again.
2006-08-05 06:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Krista ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be a little annoyed but if i was you cut your hours it may kill your relationship, money is not everything, you need to spent time together and keep your bf interested, saying this just remind him a relationship is a two way thing and you only get out of it what you put in.
2006-08-05 06:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by g spotlad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should be annoyed hun......he has been feeling really left out recently. if this is a reaccuring thing, then perhaps you should sit down, arrange a weekend with no hiccups. other than that - fair play to you for working so hard and fair play to him for still being with you. blokes get jealous if u spend no time with them, for what ever reason, all be it work. they struggle to understand and express this. and then do silly things!! hope this helps! xxx
2006-08-05 06:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by kerstinandthecats 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh why did he say that to you if his planned to go out and do something else, its starnge they live with you but it dont feel that way as they are always busy doing their own thing, and you feel as if you dont spand any time together. I would be well pissed of, but at the end of the day thats typical men for you
2006-08-05 06:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by sweetlikehoney_73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have every right to be annoyed you were looking forward to spending some time with him, he should of least phoned you,or made arrangements to collect you from work to have lunch with him and his brother....I think he has some making up to do.
2006-08-05 06:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he know when you were coming home from work? You are tired and grumpy from all of your work. Take a breather and enoy the rest of the weekend.
2006-08-05 06:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes definately, men r so inconsiderate aint they, they really don't have a brain u shud let him no how ya feel n tell him that ya want him 2 make it up 2 u, u deserve 2 be treated like a queen x
2006-08-05 06:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by charlotte b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... you know what men are like.. he probably just forgot... you are probably feeling annoyed because you are tired and just the tiniest bit irritable... don't spoil the whole weekend by arguing with him......
2006-08-05 06:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyminx82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should be because that is being totally selfish making you work to earn money for you both...then him not contacting you to say hes gone out with his brother...that is typical of men..being Spontaneous
2006-08-05 06:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by SenSored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋