Hellllpppppp! please emergency?

Question

OK WELL MY best friend (shes american) and my other best friend (shes indian) meet each other at my party and now there best friends the indian friend is also really good friends with the other friends at my party so she took away all my friends now its like they ignore me all the time this happend last month i wanna know how 2 get my indian friend away from my american ones my mom also agreed no more indian friends at my parties cuz they steel all my other friends wut do i do to make this back 2 normal, in this condition normal means my american friends away from my indiam friend

Answer 1

Thats the power of Indians,friendly, loving, acceptable, magnetic personality.Ready to rule the world

Answer 2

I wonder if they left because of racist attitudes you may have! There was no call to describe each person by race or if they were American or not that had nothing to do with your question. Yet you brought it up why? I am not calling you racist but I feel you unknowingly show bias towards race without meaning to. This will push people away even those of race you may favor. Friends will be friends unless something happens to make that fall apart! Look deep into your self and ask your self why this happened what could you have done that pushed them away. They could come back but in meantime find new friends and don't focus on color of skin or where they were born!

Answer 3

You should first remember one point in your life that "Good friends are always hard to find" "At the end of your life, if you can think or count 5 good friends in your whole life, then you can close your eyes with a big smile and think that you really lived your life to the fullest".

That was just to tell you that, if you lost your "Indian" friend then its not that she stole your friends. Afterall did that Indian friend come to US with the intention of stealing your friends? - No. She just did not match with you. So dont worry....be happy that you have the opportunity to hunt for more. If she or others friends really misses you, then you will get them back. So be yourself and live your life happily. Good luck and take care.

Answer 4

Improve your Human Relations skills. Learn from your friend who stole your friends. There must be something magnetic about her if all your friends have dropped you suddenly. This could be a normal condition as anything new seems attractive but over time the curiosity wanes and they will be back with you.

Answer 5

Well, you dont have to get them away from each other. Why not invite them to hang out , talk a lil' to each of them, join the conversation. Just try to let them know that you feel left out. If you dont, thats just gonna make you wish they werent ur best friends from the start, which i dont think you should think like that. Good luck on your friendship.

Answer 6

if u wanna be mean u could tell the american friend that the indian friend be talking bout her behing her back

but if u wann do it the nice way u can talk to both of them and tell them how u feel

Answer 7

now this isn't true...they're race does not affect wat they do...if u make comments like this, maybe thats y they dont wanna be around u....jus pull ur indian friend to tha side or invite her over and make sure u emphasize that u want to speak with her alone and explain how u feel.

Answer 8

try to see if you can work some thing out with your friends. it wouldn't help if you don't invite your friend to the party. i know it sounds really corny but try it my it will help.

Answer 9

talk to all your friend,and tell them you feel left out.Invites them over for lunch.And tell them how you feel. Good luck

Answer 10

look deep inside you,it must be you,something wrong-definitely- in your personality