2006-08-05 06:20:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Welcome to adulthood. Time to stop having unprotected sex and start making better choices, (you can still contract HIV & other dangerous life threating STD's even though you're pregnant). No turning back now, you have committed yourself to a child, you'll obviously have to do it without his help. Go get hooked up with WIC, Medicaid, and public assistance, forget college and a higher education, (which is a shame since you obviously have language arts issues), and start looking for another man...(that's what many have told you to do in previous answers before mine). Although I know there are SOME okay guys who will marry/shack up with women with previous children...the good ones who have an education, job, car, house/nice apt. don't usually fall for the women with illegitimate children. Sorry...I didn't make the rule, the decent men in the world did.
2006-08-05 06:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget About Him Take Care Of Ur Baby And Move On Maybe Someday Ull Find Someone Who Will Help U And Love Ur Kid And U And Treat U Much Better!
Take Care♥
2006-08-05 06:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Chi-Chi♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 12:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by mytych 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he was not ready to have a child. But now that you are in the situation of having a baby you need to move with your life. If he does not want to take care of a child then there will be someone out there that will want to support you and that child, but until then you need to contact WIC, and the state to see if you qualify for and assistence. Be strong you will make it through this.
2006-08-05 06:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldnt have this child? if there is not going to be a strong relationship between the both of you, its not fair to the baby to grow up with that tention. or perhaps give it to the adoption center where i know they will find a great home! Alot of my friends were adopted, and they live regular lives and are happy with there parents.
if not however, talk to your boyfriend/husband about what you are going though. If he truly loves you, he will understand your conserns.
and thanks for answering my question befor.. lol no im not having sex and getting pregnant any time soon. dont worry
2006-08-05 06:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear that but I was once in your situation and it all turned out fine give him some time and hopefully he will come around to being a father if not there are alot of ways to get support and help if you need it and we women are very strong we can handle things like this all on our own!!! good luck and god bless you u will be in my prayers and fell free to contact me if u need help finding support or need to talk or ask questions
2006-08-05 06:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe overwhelmed with the reality of becoming a father. If he doesn't come around to being a daddy, you can still get child support, or have him sign relinquish his parental rights. There are programs out there to help you. Social Services or your OB/GYN should have this listing as well for your area.
2006-08-05 06:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men have a hard time feeling the reality of pregnancy, especially early on. I hope this is the case with you. If not, enlist all the support you can get (both emotionally and resource-wise) from your family and maybe even his. Good luck.
2006-08-05 06:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by cldb730 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would a situation, to be in, but like i tell my frdz dont worry about him it the baby more than anything now it will be his loss of not being around the child cause the father of mine is not in their life so that why i look at it this way just enjoy your bundle, knowing some guys they just scared themselves on finding out they have to take care of someone else other themselves.
some guys admitted it to me. the father would say that he dont care but really i think he does...... guys have a hard time expressing themselves
2006-08-05 06:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my good friends is in the same situation, You just have to accept it and learn how to be a little stronger. Her mom is helping her out but they are really close. Some guys i think still just say yeah i want a kid to get to the unprotected sex part of it not thinking that hey a child may come out of this.... Just know not all guys are like that and there are some good ones out there, at least you know know and not later in life when your child will know and sense things aren't right .... Good Luck with your child
2006-08-05 06:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by manda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋