My friend went to this club, and met a very hot girl there. They went outside to the alley and were going to have sex, but as they started feeling around my friend noticed that the girl was actually a guy. A dragqueen I guess you could call her. My friend started freaking out and yelling at the he/she...but ended up letting the he/she suck him off. Is that gay?
2006-08-05 05:41:08 · 20 answers · asked by Jen 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sex is sex. He had sex with a man...he knew he was a man yet let him do whatever anyway.
You do the math!
2006-08-05 05:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by Chatty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality isn't black and white, with alot of varience in between. Society mucks that up, telling people what they HAVE to find attractive and unattractive. However most guys wouldn't care WHAT made them feel good and it has nothing to do with sexual orientation. They just won't admit that because society tells them that would be "gay". It doesn't prove anything one way or the other. And who has sex in alleys?? Ew.
2006-08-05 12:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that the only difference between a gay man and a straight man is a lot of alcohol.... but no, that does not necessarily mean your friend is gay... he could be, but this one sexual adventure is not necessarily a determining factor. You said he thought he was going out there with a chick who turned out to have a dick. Had your friend been the one giving the oral delight, that would not even mean he was gay, but merely experimenting (unless he likes to experiment over and over again anyway).
2006-08-05 12:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by rp_iowa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The act is gay, but that should not define him as such. Too much is geared towards labeling. If he liked it, so much the better. The same happened to an ex brother-in-law. He got more careful the next time!
2006-08-05 14:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by fabmaster6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8-| NO! He got blown and I dont think it mattered whether it was a guy or girl who was doing it to him. That's just like getting a hand-job; it really doesn't matter who gives it to you, you probably wouldn't notice, but sexuality is based upon a lot more like attraction and emotional closeness not lust or heat of the moment kind of sexcapades...
2006-08-05 13:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by laydlo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowing that he was a guy and still enjoying sex hmmmmmm well i dont think gay exactly maybe curiousity but if he does it again then defintly gay. other wise and experiment
2006-08-05 12:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is one of the gays that was not born that way , he just got sucked into being gay.
2006-08-05 12:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
He didn't reciprocate, so it's not gay.
It was just a BJ....and he was the receiver.
He was drunk probably and wouldn't do that if he wasn't.
He probably got the BEST BJ ever, though.
2006-08-05 13:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really...it means he was horny, and any port in a storm. This has NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING GAY! Good luck
2006-08-05 13:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! If he's still attracted to girls he's NOT gay! He may be bisexual or just have had an "experiment"... Depends on if he enjoyed it or would do it again...
2006-08-05 16:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by Grimm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋