We've known each other for 6 years but I always have a fishy feeling that she's not being honest with me. Somehow when we get together, I always feel annoyed or irritated by her presence for no reason! I can't help it but the feeling is always there, and my heart tells that there's always something fishy about her. Please help me.
2006-08-05 05:38:51 · 5 answers · asked by Springboard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if shes that close of a friend then you should be able to talk to her about it.
ask if theres anything going on, or anything bugging her.
2006-08-05 05:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once,i also had a friend who was like this.we were very close and we did practically everything together.she was a nice girl.
however,she started to be pretty cautious about what she does in front of me and what she said.i was really irritated by her whenever we were together.
in the end,i found that she had been smoking and drinking all along.i realised it was because of her problems at home and she was very stressed with her schoolwork.
try to talk to your friend to see if there's anything wrong with her.tell her how much you care about her and how heartbroken you felt when you know she's not being honest with you.she may be feeling embarassed to tell you her problems.but try asking her.there's no harm in doing it.
if i were you,i would try to discard away the annoyed and irritated feeling.friends are hard to find,and it's even harder to keep.moreover,you have known each other for 6 years.it's not easy to stay that way for a long time.cherish your friendship.gd luck to you.
2006-08-05 12:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that when we think something is off...its prob. ture. Its totally fine to in your heart know something is "off". Now that does not mean she is dishonest, I mean after 6 years have you caught her in many lies? It may just be that she is always trying to impress people or is having diffculty with her self esteem. Some people feel the need to boast, I suppose to make themselves feel more connected, special or interesting.
After six years I think you should know her well enough to know if you want to really be her life long friend. I would say that when she is acting the way you dont like.....call her on it right at that moment. You could also tell her that you think she is special no matter what and that she does not need to work so hard to impress you!
2006-08-05 12:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by my1215boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been friends for so long you should be able to talk about it but if this feeling is always there maybe you should find a new friend
on the other hand she might be tryin to impress you by lying to you,you should also ask yourself why are you friends?is she a good friend?or maybe an investment because she always gives you things or money so the best way is to confront her
2006-08-05 12:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by blackavaritia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i have had a lot of expirence with people takeing advantage and walking all over me and it is my fault
why?
because i kept my mouth shut come out and ask her what her problem is if there is nothing wrong just apologize and be ok with it it is better to ask and get it out in the open
if there is nothing wrong at least now she will know that you are not going to put up with **** believe me you do not want to keep quiet i am learning to not take ANY CRAP from ANYONE ANYMORE :P
hope that helped :P
2006-08-05 12:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋