how can i explain to my partner, I'm getting bore of our sex relationship?

Question

we been together for six years and i been trying to tell him to do different stuff or al least different room action but he doesn't get it the next day is the same , well i tried show him different couples and how they look so fine together now we walk every where for our sides i still love him but he doesn't put anything

Answer 1

I think there is nothing to worry about many partners behave like this it is a matter of difference in knowledge of understanding each other I think your partner is very much straight in having sex and he believe in wham bham maam and he seems to have no interest in sex or lacking interest in sex on the otherhand you want switch between changes of all kind, my kind opinion is to communicate with him more freely and try to gain his confidence and explain very plainly what how when where you need him do not hesitate in talking to him just ask him plainly in simple words

Answer 2

Dear Susie,

You should not be having sex with anyone except your own husband. The bed (intimacy) is something that is reserved for those who are married. The Bible tells us that fornication (having sex outside of marriage) is a sin. And the penalty for that sin is to spend eternity in hell!! There is a great deal of evidence in the Bible to suggest that the world will end in 2011. Jesus Christ will appear on the last day (we do not know what day it will be) and every eye shal see Him! It will be a frightful day for all those who are not born again (saved by God's grace). I do not know what your situation is but I would immediately STOP the sexual sin and begin asking God for His mercy. Read the Bible. I also will give you a website that explains more of what I have spoken to you about.

Answer 3

I have hit the same rut here girl so I have visited a website that sells sex toys and cute little things like lotions and bondage ties etc and I am going to surprise him with a little gift package and set the mood one night. I already have a naughty outfit set up. I am going to talk very, very dirty to him and let him tie me up. I am thinking of buying a blindfold too and maybe getting some foods to play with....I think if you do something really creative and unexpected you will find that he will like it!!

Answer 4

why don't you take him to a high end sexstore and pick something out that would be fun for the both of you.

Or grab a book at a bookstore with different positions and say...hey why don't we try this?

Don't say I'm bored, say let's try something new!

Answer 5

Good question. No matter what you say you are probably going to end up divorced. Why don't you do something different? Men are easy to control just do something and he will go along with it.

Answer 6

You need to be the one to just go ahead and initiate it with him. I say remember back to when you both become sexually and start all over again with him. Take the first step and the second soon he will follow your lead !
Best of luck to you

Answer 7

well you have to understand he wont know unles you tell him go into a different room get a book and show him what you want to do then he will know

Answer 8

hay tell him that u want a break for some days
so that he dont do sex & it is better that u go some other place so that he & u will be fine .

Answer 9

u tll him its no good to say unhappy adjustments wont last long or start to move out with ur friends with his knowledge

Answer 10

go to a sex store or watch porn or either go see a counselor