Me and my boyfrend hav been goin out for 4 days when i tlk online wit him i just cant say i love you. plz help me
2006-08-05 05:26:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
# 1 u might not love him. sometimes ur brain knows what ur heart wants. and dont force urself when the time is right u will do it without thinking twice but keep in mind it might not be this guy
# 2 maybe u r not ready to commit ' i love u ' is a commitment. and u r scared to make such a commitment
# 3 it could also be that u r scared of saying' i love u' and not getting it back so scared of rejection.
2006-08-05 05:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you know the answer already! If you can't say Iloveyou after WHOLE 4 days, it means you are quite normal. 4 days is not even a bf yet, so don't you worry!
2006-08-05 07:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Rachelgoose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it in a special way. since it seems like you feel really strongly about it. maybe go out to dinner or you can cook for him and make a nice romantic dinner and then say it.....but wait youve only been going out for 4 days so arent you rushing it a little bit??
2006-08-05 05:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by cherrysnowcone08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a loser in need of affection. You ONLY have been dating him for 4 DAYS moron. I would not tell you I love you either. Your going to freak him out and scare him away.
2006-08-05 05:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by mexchick316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four days and you can't say I love you? Probably because you are not in love with him. You don't even know someone after four days, much less are in love with them. Give it time, honey. Now, if you can't say you love him after, say, four months, then find another boyfriend.
2006-08-05 05:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont you need to tell your boyfriend that you love him right away because i think it takes more than a few days to fall in love with some one. wait a lil while longer before telling him that
2006-08-05 05:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Dessert♦Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write alot and then just say I love you while your writing he will be so suprised. And he will respond back
2006-08-05 05:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybee you dont love him it takes time to develope love so give it time it will come get to know each othe first
2006-08-05 05:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by faxxon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"sayin' i love you, it's the hardest thing to do, and if i ever do..."
hahaha.
do you really love him?
don't say it if you don't mean it...afterall, it's only been four days.
2006-08-05 05:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by Mole?Kiosk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not. Loving him I mean.
2006-08-05 05:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by AJK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋