My younger sister who is 16 went out with a 20 year last night that she works together with. I think he is too old for her. Am I wrong and just being over protective? Or do I have a vaild reason for being concerned? Please tell me what you think!
2006-08-05 05:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are just being too protective. Think about it this way, after ten years, she'd be 26 and the guy would be 30, not much of a difference in years right? On the other hand, you do have a valid reason to be concerned. Hey, your sister's only 16! Have her wait till she's 18, then she can go out with whoever she wants. When I was 24 I went out with a 16 year old chick, her parents thought it wasn't right. Well... they were right.
2006-08-05 05:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by johlog_ric 2 · 4⤊ 4⤋
If he were "21",then he'd be too old for her. Most 16 year old girls can handle a guy his age,but if your really concerned,then have a nice sisterly chat with her. Find out what his intentions are. They may have just wanted to go on a date. Don't worry,but keep your eyes and ears open for your "Lil Sis".
2006-08-05 12:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definetlyy have a valid reason to be concerned, for one thing it's ILLEGAL for them to date, and two there is a big maturity difference between 20 and 16.
2006-08-05 12:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was 16 I dated a guy who just turned 20
and we dated for 3 years. it depends on the guy
2006-08-05 12:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm yes you are right.. First off why is a twenty year old hooking up with a sixteen year old helllo... Put a stop to it now...
2006-08-05 12:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's illegal and if she sleeps with him, which i hope she doesn't it's called stagatory rape...tell her to move on...and yes your aloud to be protective, especially with all those sickos out there
2006-08-05 12:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too old for her and that's called rape. You are doing the right thing and sometimes love can hurt esp. when it comes to family.
2006-08-05 12:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by hnic_shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a simple rule: If it's illegal she's too young! Period.
2006-08-05 12:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Willie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would it be illegal? HUM
2006-08-05 12:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋