2006-08-05 05:09:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
You can't really do anything. If you don't listen to the conversations, all you hear is the yelling, then try listening first. They may not be fighting about bad things, just arguing about something silly. If you do and you know that the arguments are serious, then I suggest trying to get counseling for all of you, for your parents fighting and for what you've heard. Also, let me say, that whatever happens, it was NOT your fault. Best of luck and I hope all goes well with your family in the future.
Fortitudino....- That is not what the kid wanted to hear right now.
Back to you. If your parents do end up splitting, then hopefully that will be best, but I sure do hope that you and your family will be able to work out your problems and stay together.
2006-08-05 05:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Asterisk_Love♥ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dear fantoona, it was the same with my parents all the time, too. If your parents only recently started doing like this, while they didint do that before, maybe yes, their relationship is comiing to end or they are going to stop arguing after they have gone over that issue whatever that was. Then you will have to be patient with them and understand they have problems. Just you can make them know how much you like them BUT dislike their arguments and ask them to leave you out of their own issues. But maybe your parents are like mine - arguing all their life endlessly but without any intention to separate - this left me firstly wondering why they were together, secondly i had hard time not to consider yelling as normal way of communication... I wish you all the best. Maybe if you find out what the actual reason of their arguments is you will feel better too - sometimes the things they yell at each other are just something else than the reason why they actually yell, why they are angry at each other, you know.
2006-08-05 06:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by iva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no control over your parents.
You could write them a letter saying.
Example:
Dear Mom & Dad:
I love you both very much.
I understand that parents do argue from time to time.
The two of you argue every day! Do you have any ideal how much it up set me, and scares me, I want to hide where I can no longer hear you two fight. It makes me hurt and cry inside.
I love you both, want you to love and be happy to gather! Want our family to be happier, than it is now. Would you two be willing to get help, where we all could have a more peaceful, loving home for us to come home to each day..
I worry that you two, will be getting a divorce, Of course I don't want you to divorce, but may be that would be better than you to fighting every day all the time.
Please get help where our family, can be more loving and peaceful when we are to gather.
I pray to God, for us to be a happy family, at least most of the time.
Do you two remember when you were in love? could you remember and practice, being in love again.
Your loving daughter!
2006-08-05 05:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's so terrible about a divorce? The fact that they'll fight? They're fighting now. You might find it to be an improvement.
Looking back, I wish my parents had gotten a divorce. I wouldn't have had to listen to them fighting so much. My dad killed himself when the marriage started finally crumbling. If they had just gotten a divorce instead, he'd probably still be here.
2006-08-05 05:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get them down and remind them both they have you and they need to think of that and stop being selfish over their petty matters and wait to argue like that when you are OUT of the house...Good Luck
2006-08-05 05:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best you can do is pray. And most of all remember that it isn't your fault.
PS. when they're busy arguing, go outside with a book, it works for me.
2006-08-05 05:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, first and foremost how old are you? That may help define actions to take.
2006-08-05 06:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by fabmaster6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itz the same case with my parents...
may b 1st they need some counsellin, if they really wanna seperate, let them seperate...good for both.
2006-08-05 05:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess u can't do anything cos' it's between your parents.
Why don't you talk to them about your insecurities?
And maybe tell them that you love them ! (:
2006-08-05 05:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by excusememiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid you can't do nothing
2006-08-05 05:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by Crimson King 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋