help...has to do with suicide?

Question

ok, im pretty young.... im just not saying HOW young..im a preteen...ok..and i feel suicidal a LOT.. i always feel that all my friends secretly hate me behind my back, and that im ugly, and that im really stupid cuz i dont get straight A's.. and i think im rally fat...and im develpoing really really late....
i already go to a therapist....and i dunno, its getting better...but very very slowly..
do u feel like this? answer then contact me.
thanks

Answer 1

(-; You are loved more then you realize. Please ignore the negative things that come your way. In every moment of your life you'll have positive and negative things to choose. You have a choice to be happy or sad. Make yourself happy with honest happy friends. A different therapist for the sake of improving faster may be needed. Choices sweetie... they are yours, make the best of this life. If you need a person to talk to email me. (-;

Answer 2

Hey, did you know that there are sites that can help with this sort of thing? I would like you to look at these sites. : http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/ and http://suicidal.com/. Please remember you only get on chance at life and if you end it Early then isn't that a waist. Also if you were to kill yourself that would be abit selfish as you would break your Parents/Guardians hearts. I am sure that if you look there are chat-rooms where you can go and express your feelings to people your age that also feel the same way you do. We are not all Einsteins at school but aslong as you are trying your hard at school what does it matter if you do not get straight A's. Also if you really think that you are fat then why not join the local gym or jog every morning while you are on the school holidays just to make you feel better about yourself. Please do not do anything stupid and think of the future and what the is to enjoy and what the consequences are of committing suicide.

Answer 3

you have a lot of courage posting this....i respect that

sometimes i do. i have been depressed before, even though i am young. i am a little overweight, though i exorcise and eat right. i used to think like you, too. i always thought i was ugly, and didn't
deserve happiness, or the right to live. i'd cry all the time when i was alone, and when around people i wept silently. i've learned that i shouldn't compare myself to others. (weight, ability, looks) i'm starting to stop that, too

the best you can do really is hang around people who don't make fun of you. as for grades, admitting you need help is a huge sign of maturity. get a tutor. you are probably not fat.....there is no such thing as an ugly girl, you are beautiful and unique in some way that one day you'll find out which. hope i helped you. :)

Answer 4

That's pretty hardcore. I sort of know what you mean...to an extent. When I was thirteen I got really depressed and cut a lot of the time, and I also did some other stuff I am not so proud of. There's nothing wrong with you, everyone has some problems, and a lot of people develop later. If it's getting better than I wouldn't worry too much about it. A lot of stuff is awesome, and whatever makes you feel so damn awesome, you need to find it and stick with it. Just do something that makes you happy...even for a moment.

Answer 5

Just have faith in yourself. Everyone is beautiful, everyone is smart. You are who you are. Everyone in the world is different, that doesn;t make you stupid, it doesn't make you fat, it makes you unique. And do you think a real friend would talk about you behind your back? Here's what I would do, write a list about your pros, and cons. When you find the cons, don't lose hope, just start working on them 1 by 1. Make new friends that don't care how you look or how smart you are. And some day if you try you will suceed. If your wanting to loose wait try just eating healthy or maybe counting calories. And just rememer, there are people out there who will like you for who you are and not what you look like. And just because you don't make straight A's doesn't mean your stupid, I have a lot of friends that don't make straight A's, that doesn't mean I don't treat them right, and a lot of people won't care about that, you just have to find the right friends. Please just don't hurt yourself. Things are going to get even better, just keep reminding yourself of those pros. Good luck!

Answer 6

I know youve already gotten some really great advice but if it helps im a pre-teen as well and i (about a year ago) fell into a slump feeling bad about my wieght, hieght, friends, and most importantly the death of my grama Linda who was pretty much my closest person to me in my family...i would sad alot and wouldnt talk to my friends at school and it cost me about 3 or 4 of my friends that i dont talk to anymore...all you have to do is find a hobby (im glad cuz i did) Now every friday i go golfing with my only true friend Autumn...

Answer 7

Yes I do feel like this but not because of your child problems. Im a single mother make low income its hard to feed my kids. The father is in Prison for about 40 more years. I feel like dying everyday so all this can go away. You have to fight it. You have to be stronger. You have to know you are special. Who cares about friends weight or anything else? Worry about your future and the amazing things you can do. Like leave to college in a diffrent state.You dont get straight A's its ok D is passing.

Answer 8

Im only 13 and i thought about the same thing once. I have alot of problems in my life thats hard to deal with. At school i was alone, i had no friends, i was always picked on, i tought i was ugly, fat and i was vary depressed. Not only that but my mom and family yelled at me alot like im a bad person. Than i thought no one loved me, so i thought that the only way out was killing myself. But than i thought no, think of how many people your going to hurt, think of so many things you wont be able to do. I than relised if you want life to change you have to live. I know it seems hard, but you have to try, things will get better in the end youll see.

Answer 9

i dated a guy who was suicidal and trust me, you dont want to go down his path. he used to slice his arms up every night when we'd be talkin on the phone. i think the best thing you can do is keep a diary and write in it everytime you feel miserable. it helps a lot. and dont worry, you've already taken the first step by getting help. and if youre friends hate u or whatever, then you need to get some new friends.

Answer 10

I used to feel like that all the time. And so I stopped talking to my friends, and I stopped caring about school, and I stayed in my room all the time and talked to no one and did nothing.

None of my friends cared. Except one. And now she's my best friend and the only friend I have and we go malling and to the beach and hang out.

The moral of the story is that most people you think are your friends really arent, but you shouldnt stop living your life because of what they think. The only real friend you have is yourself. Be sure you dont lose it.