It is a real shame... how can someone look into anothers eyes and have pure hatred and rage...
We are Supposed too be Intelligent Human Beings...
Ahem! Yes i said intelligent!
Peace!
2006-08-05 05:05:02 · 32 answers · asked by AZRAEL è 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
puctuation perhaps.. and an o in the wrong place... refuse to be nice, too others?
2006-08-05 05:23:48 · update #1
Because so many people are @ssholes!
2006-08-05 05:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by opjames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree that their actions are a real shame.
Some were spoiled rotten as children - and brought up to think they are better than everyone else. Some ran into stuck-up people, and picked up the habit. Some were latchkey kids (no adult home when they returned from school) - and still feel some rage over that - or got into bad habits due to it.
It is not hard to be nice - a simple smile or nod as you pass people by, a hello to a neighbor, a thank you to someone who holds open a door for you, assisting an elderly or handicapped person with shopping, etc.
2006-08-05 05:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there Gazza - l so enjoy your questions, so much thought behind an 'off the cuff question!'
I believe some people refuse to be nice to thers because:
They have never been show niceness themselves.....
They present a reflection of themselves by the way that they treat others.....
They have never been loved......
They have loved and made themselves vulnerable by doing so - and in returns have had their emotions and love trampled all over......
They fear being nice to others because a feeling of kindness to others will only serve to expose their own feelings of inadequacy and low self esteem......
I could go on further...... at risk to sending you and others fast asleep!!!!
Stay Blessed........
2006-08-05 05:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by sunny_dayz_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause some ppl are just plain annoying . tell me you've never felt full of rage just for another individual breathing within your space. I have.
however our intelligence prevails and separates us from other beings when we dont act on this ridiculous but unavoidable rage.
2006-08-05 05:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by metorido 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people believe nice guys finish last. others need hate to feel superior to others. and remember, not everyone is an intelligent human being! LOL
2006-08-05 05:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE........if you ask them......they'll TELL you.
For instance....this is my family's perspective. I'm always wrong and the one that's always so disagreeable. They're RIGHT. But if they'd just once ASK me what I'm so pissed about and then for once just LISTEN to me, maybe we could CORRECT the problem and get about the business of living in peace. Until then, I've had it just one too many times and I'm not lowering my dignity to keep licking boots.
2006-08-05 05:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people like that have issues with themselves and are bitter and so dont want anyone else to be happy. If everyone would just treat people how they want to be treated the world would be a wonderfall place!!xx
2006-08-05 05:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are supposed too be intelligent, but clearly some of us aren't! Maybe I could make a nice polite suggestion too you too improve your spelling.
2006-08-05 05:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by Caromack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nice usually means that your mother taught you courtesy. Since very few mothers teach courtesy anymore, there is little in the world. Mothers used to teach self discipline, courtesy and manners. No one does that anymore
2006-08-05 05:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have the ability to see or feel if another Pearson is a good soul or not... and they fear that there for they are not nice to avoid that Pearson...
2006-08-05 05:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if you noticed, but the intelligent people are nice. The small, narrow minded people arent.
2006-08-05 05:09:23 · answer #11 · answered by Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋