I have been dating the same guy for almost six months. Last weekend he confessed he likes to wear girls clothes. And he wants me to help dress him up. Should I take him shopping and put him in everything from panties and bras to a dress, or drop him and move on? He says he is straight. I do really care about him, but do not love him yet.
2006-08-05 04:45:03 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If I do dress him, what should I make him wear. I really want him to know what it feels like to be a girl!
2006-08-05 04:48:12 · update #1
Whether you are lovers or if you just stay friends, if you are ok with crossdressing, go ahead and help him. Most crossdressers would love to have a female friend who accepts his girl side. He will be forever grateful for whatever help and encouragement you can offer. Wouldn't it be fun to have someone to shop with who is always willing to buy? Have some fun in the lingerie dept. by holding things up to see how they will look on him. He'll give you the best sex ever when you get home. Naturally, you should make him wear everything a real girly-gurl has to wear. I hope he turns into a real cutie for you.
2006-08-05 17:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by debbysfemail 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
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2015-02-28 07:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably is straight most crossdressers are. Ask him to show you himself dressed without your help. Once you see him dressed that will help you decide if you care about the guy enough to stick around and build a relationship. If you can't or just don't want to move on.
2006-08-05 04:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cross-dressing doesn't mean that your boyfriend is gay however, in some men it might be an alert that they may be in denial of their homosexual curiosities. Most cross-dressers are heterosexual and their fantasies include wearing female clothing so that they can get a feel for what it's like to be a woman. This is usually seen as a turn off or a gay alert to women but in actuality, in most cases it should be seen as a flattery of the woman race, these men are so turned on by the woman that they want to know what it feels like to be them. I say get to know him better and enjoy his company and if this is something that you can accept then take him out and let him explore the areas that make him feel sexy. It can actually be a lot of fun and remember it can be a personal thing you share as a couple....as long as you both enjoy and accept it. If not then parting may be the answer....most cross-dressers if confronted and told to stop for the sake of other partners will keep doing it in private anyhow.
Hope this helpful.
2006-08-05 05:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by billyboysblue 3 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Have you ever worn boxer shorts? A suit? A tie? You cross-dresser!!!!
He's straght. It is not a gay thing at all. If you feel uncomfortable, the get out! Unless you do not plan on having kids, marriage, or long term relation. The truth will come out and a lifetime of weirdness and odd remarks from everyone.
2006-08-05 04:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
And apparently we live in a "tolerant" society...
Remember, it became acceptable for girls to wear men's clothes a long time ago.
There's no relationship between cross-dressing and sexuality.
2006-08-05 04:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Stomach 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You care about him, but if you can't deal with what he has revealed you probably can't deal with what else he may present. Dressing up does not necessarily mean he is gay. what is he into? Lingerie or complete dress up, including hair and makeup? You should get those question answered.
Keep in mind everyone has hidden desires and thoughts - he thinks enough of you to open up some of his thoughts - don't cut him off for being honest.
But you can for not aligning with his desires.
Good Luck
2006-08-05 04:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by rfeldsch 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Can you live with a b/f borrowing your clothes? Or dressing better than you? Or having guys hit on him instead of you?
What matters most is how you feel about him and weather you can accept him how he is.
2006-08-05 04:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by reallyconfuzzled1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he shaves in all the proper places as well.....nothing worse than a woman with hairy legs and pits! Maybe its a turn-on for the guy - if he's really a nice guy, you might want to give him a chance despite his little quirk.
2006-08-05 04:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't bothered by your guy wearing silk panties, then go for it! How many guys would make such a great shopping buddy?
2006-08-05 04:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋