would i do a business or any work of my own?

Question

ii m a housewife right know married almost 2 years back.i used to have a business of my own related to packing n creative classes before marriage.i have no restrictions from my family but cant find the right way where to go as i need to do sum work or else siting at home i will go into depression.i have no child till yet n i m planning for a child sumwhere in the next year.

Answer 1

If you were doing fine in your business of before marriage, why don't you try pursuing that itself. Since your husband and in-laws are co-operative, you can start afresh and in a much better way having learnt a lot from earlier experience.

Alternatively, keeping your plans for a child next year, you should keep in mind the break you might be required to take. Take-up something which you could monitor remotely and even your husband or someone from your in-laws could assist you in your time of need. Or just postpone the idea for some more time and have fun and explore more knowledge about your prospective new venture meantime till you get free from delivery.

Answer 2

let's start with few points :
1). first of all u nned to sort out the problem related to ur depression..as that's a big problem ..may be not now.. but later this will affect ur children and relationship.. u beter talk to ur close people about ur problem ..and do involve ur husband before taking any decison.. and do consult any psychiatrist either individually or ..with ur husband..

2) if u planning for child next yr so be prepapred for it as u nned to maintain ur health..
3) just talk to ur husband about ur ambitions.. after going thru above 2 points.. he wil surely understands u..
marriage is all about mutual co-operation.. ..u can talk to me over yahoo messenger.. if u think ..i am right.. anywhere..