My husband has 3 mistress. Should I dump him or move back, pray for him. Save him from going to hell.
2006-08-05 03:56:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont dump him .pray for him because if you dont he might end up in hell and trust me i have seen hell and you wouldnt want any of your family members to be there.PRAYING FOR HIM WILL CHANGE HIS HEART AND SAVE HIM FROM HELL
2006-08-05 04:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by t-crisis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest when i read your question i thought how frign stupid to even ask!... but the fact that you asked and the fact that one of the options you gave yourself was to move back and pray is disturbing. you gave yourself that option for a reason. maybe you subconsiously are into a more open marriage. maybe you are insecure and have allowed him to make you believe you arent a strong enough woman without him no matter how he treats you. did you find out about all 3 at once or one by one? regardless what your answer is your asking this question says you love him more than yourself. Pray for him if you like but I say YOU are the one we need to pray for. Whats done is done and theres no changing that now. What YOU can change is YOUR life. Hes not worried about yours so why worry about his? After all what about the health factor sleeping around?? Accept this behaviour or not. Join it or not. There are all kinds of marriages out there open to this stuff but its all a choice. It takes 2 in a marriage. Hes made the decision to steer the marriage this way now its up to you whether you are into going that direction or not. whatever your choice do it for YOUR happiness... he already has 3 looking after his happiness. its all about choices.
2006-08-05 12:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by wildest_rose1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually agree with Trueblond (that will be the first for a blond, lol) that he needs more than prayers. He seem to need Jesus face to face.
Seriously, you should put yourself in that kind of uncomfortable situation. It's good that you pray for his well-being, but also know that you are human and u have feelings. I can't tell you what to do, but i can suggest that you do it far away from him. You can pray for him, but he has to walk the path alone because that's what he has chosen to do. I wish u the best of luck.
2006-08-05 11:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by Max 77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from him and pray for him defintely.
If he has 3 mistresses than he has no respect or love for you.
You need to move on with your life and find yoursefl in a happier situation without him.
2006-08-05 11:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by catherine b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot save him from going to hell. He has to accept Christ. There is a scriptural reference to one who is saved staying with the unbelieving spouse. It also say that if the unbelieving is inclined to leave, do not stop him. His relationship with 3 mistresses suggests that he has left you whether he is out of the house or not. Talk with him. If he has left you, and be careful of trickery, then you are not scripturally bound. Also, you need to be able to forgive him. If you cannot, that will not do your efforts to stay married any good.
2006-08-05 11:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can pray for him if you wish, but you need to dump him. He does not love you, nor does he respect you. You cant change him, so moving back in is futile. Get a divorce and realize that your choice in him was an error.
2006-08-05 11:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 mistress, your not married, your just a safe harbor to spend the night in. All you are to him is a place to keep jis stuff, cook, and clean for him. Tell him your going to see a divorce lawyer and see how quickly he changes his tune. You deserve better then that. Get you a man that loves only you, you deserve no less.
2006-08-05 11:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THREE mistresses!!! Run as fast as you can! He needs more than prayer, trust me! He does not know the meaning of the word "marriage". See a lawyer, file for divorce, and find someone who truly loves you. Sounds like your husband doesn't even love himself, let alone you!
2006-08-05 10:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with 3 he is telling you it's over, pray for him but stay away
2006-08-05 11:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by fetter_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sweetie.......you cannot save this poor excuse for a man from Hell. Stop, stop, stop focusing on a looser like him......Save yourself. If you stay with him.....you will get what you ask for and, in that case, you need to stop whining and complaing about your miserable life that you are choosing becasue people just don't want to hear about it. Help yourself......you are the only one who can.
2006-08-05 11:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋