2006-08-05 03:38:05 · 17 answers · asked by Xiao 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, hon. You can't be friends with someone you hate, unless what you really feel is envy/jealousy and want to be like them. In that situation you may think you hate someone because they have everything you think you don't have (looks, clothing, and attention), which means you feel jealous of them more so than actually hating them. You may actually like them to a degree, so yes you can be friends - in a way - provided that you don't let your jealousy spill over into the relationship.
But if you TRULY hate someone with a passion and can't stand anything about them, NO you cannot be friends with them. It isn't possible to do so because feelings of hatred are very strong and cannot be concealed like feelings of jealousy can. People know when they are hated, as I am sure you have if the situation was reversed at some point in your life.
2006-08-05 03:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what we do with family members. lol if you hate the person stop hanging and calling the person. ignore the person or tell him or her that you two can not be friends anymore. hating a person is not healthy nor is that peron a friend.
2006-08-05 10:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by averilyn06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well No its not ok!!!! Did you know when you say
you hate someone its because you see something in them
that you also see in yourself.? In other words look inside yourself before you use the word hate so easily.
2006-08-05 10:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that you hate something your friend said or did, not the friend. Discuss it with him or her. tell them that you want to be a true friend but ???? is bothering you and as a true friend you'd like to understand why that happens.
2006-08-05 10:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Happy Hag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, if it's OK with you. I just don't see the point of causing yourself so much negative emotions and stress. You decide however.
2006-08-06 09:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Rachelgoose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. my friends and i are always in fights and whatever and that kind of stuff always comes around. ive learned that it is bad to do that cause if you hate them then dont hang out with then
2006-08-05 10:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that I hate, I have not seen him for a month, he might be dead. I don't know, I sure miss him!
Roger, call me!
2006-08-05 10:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! Cuz if you hate the person you are going to end up back stabbing them.....that was a preety dumb question
2006-08-05 10:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by XoXo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AK-47 is the tool
2006-08-05 10:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only reasn you would do that is because your afraid if you dropped this person as a friend you would be afraid you couldnt find another friend. that i s simply not true.
2006-08-05 10:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋