2006-08-05 03:36:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him how you feel, and tell him that you want foreplay too.
2006-08-05 03:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By foreplay do you mean oral sex? A lot of guys don't like giving that. Some think it's "unmanly," others fear that they won't like the smell or the taste.
Try talking to your bf -- during a time when sex isn't imminent -- about his objections. If it turns out that he's concerned about hygiene, have him try it right after you get clean (say, after a bath or shower). If it's the former issue, tell him how much that act would please you and remind him that pleasuring a woman is manly. And if it turns out that he's just selfish in bed, remind him that there are men out there who enjoy pleasing a woman in that manner -- and that you might just have to find one.
2006-08-05 10:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfish
2006-08-05 11:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple: You get the foreplay first! If he wants to please you, which should be his goal, he'll do that first before he received anything. You should have a talk with your bf and tell him YOU first; men don't need as much preparation for sex...but women do. Also, what he's doing is selfish; he's only looking out for himself and not trying to please you at all. Maybe you need a new boyfriend, honey.
2006-08-05 10:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not into you period. I love to give foreplay to a woman I'm attracted to because it gives me the opportunity to explore her gorgeous body. If the foreplay you're giving him is oral and he wants that more then intercourse , he is gay. Wake up to this fact ladies , no hetero guy would like getting oral more then P**** . Get a new guy honey.
2006-08-05 10:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by NOIR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that with my husband that most of the time you just need to tell them what you want.....I think that guys sometimes really don't know until you tell them and when it comes to sex most men want to make you happy so that you can do it more often! I would just bring it up casually maybe in bed like "ya know what really turns me on?".....and tell him some specific things he can do to turn you on and that should work.
2006-08-05 10:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by Emily W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the word SELFISH come to mind.. If he aint giving don't give any receiving plain and simple... But first have you asked him and given him the opportunity to change?
2006-08-05 11:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called selfish. If you're not married. . . he figures he can afford it because he has no commitments.
Sex is for marriage. Sex is for those who are responsible AND accountable. You guys aren't.
2006-08-05 10:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because hes selfish. But I would never hold out on you.
2006-08-05 10:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Death 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man is missing out.
2006-08-05 10:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by rch5181 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋