ei guys!! need some advice.. is using withdrawal a safe method? is birth control pills advisable for me since i am only 22 years old? we dont wanna use condom since it just doesn't feel go0d especially for me.. your response is highly appreciated. tnx!
2006-08-05 03:29:49 · 51 answers · asked by pinklady 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
NO NO NO. Withdrawal is a terrible method of birthcontrol. There is some sperm in the fluid that leaks from his penis even before ejaculation so you could get pregnant even if he withdraws that the 'critical moment'.
You think condoms don't feel good? Try getting up at 3:00 a.m. with a screaming baby. THAT doesn't feel good.
Get you butt to the gynecologist. Whether it's the pill, nuvaring, IUD or patch you've got to get yourself on some kind of reliable birth control
NOW
2006-08-05 03:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Simone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! That is worse than a really well charted rhythm method which isn't too good itself. There are many types and brands of condoms. If comfort is an issue, try not using spermicidal condoms or spermicide. Try other types of condoms. Spermicide, in more sensitive individuals, can "attack" or irritate the vaginal lining making it sensitive and/or more susceptible to infection, STD's and such. Also, using too much spermicide or too often can have the same effect in otherwise normal individuals. Would that be too much sex? Just don't overuse the stuff.
Birth control pills are a real option provided you are in proper health. Talk with a doctor about the pros and cons. Smoking, drinking, and blood pressure are concerns when on the pill. You have to know your medicine because if you take a medication which will interact with you birth control pills then they will not work during that time and you still have to take them. Talk to a doctor. They are there to help. You pay; they help. Just be honest and courteous.
2006-08-05 03:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pull out method is NOT a sure method to not get pregnant. There is still pre-ejaculation that you can become pregnant from. Birth control pills would be great for you since you don't want to use condoms. Girls as young as 15 or 16 can get on birth control. There are many different birth control pills and your doctor can prescribe you one that is best for you.
2006-08-05 04:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Pink Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes birthcontrol pills are advisable to you. They're safe regardless of your age, unless you're over 35.
Withdrawl IS NOT a safe method. Everyone I know who used that method got pregnant. There is sperm in pre-ejaculate, and he has no control on when that comes out (the entire time).
There are lots of options other than condoms for you... there's the contraceptive pills, depo provera shot, there's the birth control patch, there's IUD, you do have to go to the doctor but if you don't want a baby right now it's your best bet.
You're young and assuming you're fairly healthy there should be no problems with getting these! :)
2006-08-05 03:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by h0ckeyl0ver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not a SAFE method to avoid pregnancy. Get on the pill or use a condom...who cares if it does not feel good...if you do not want to get pregnant then you need to be a responsible adult and use all the precautions such as all forms of birth control as well as condoms to prevent pregnancy, STDs and AIDS. The pull out method is not 100% effective whatsoever...if you are that worried then stop having sex...plain and simple.
2006-08-05 05:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course birth control pills are availible for you! And if a condom doesn't feel as good then i would definantly use them instead...but the pull-out "withdrawal" method is not an affective method of birth control. Things do happen and precum can get you pregnant.
2006-08-05 05:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Withdrawal is not a sure method at all...my best friend has a 9 month old baby girl because of that method...and of course Birth Control Pills are available to you...I know girls much younger than you on birth control pills.
2006-08-05 03:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are only two sure ways.
One is to not have sex.
The other is to have a hysterectomy. (removal of the uterus)
Even a tubal ligation (having your tubes "tied") isn't a 100% guarantee. While getting pregnant after that is VERY rare, it can happen. (less than one in several hundred)
The withdrawal method is not an effective form of birth control as sperm can often escape prior to ejaculation.
Have you considered using a low-dose birth control pill or patch? They are highly effective when used as prescribed.
If money is an issue (and sometimes it is for all of us!) you can try using Planned Parenthood in your area. They provide several services including low-cost birth control info and products.
Good luck! It's refreshing to see a young adult making smart decisions!
2006-08-05 03:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Austinite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope i tried that method, now My husband and I have 4 little lovelies all under 8 (2 of them are 11 months apart) I'm allergic to alot of the birth control pills, if you don't like condoms try a contraceptive film, or abstinence.
2006-08-05 03:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Wish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That method doesn't really work. There is always a bit of sperm present. If body conditions are right, then pregnancy is likely to happen. It is better to NOT use this method. I got pregnant this way. There is nothing wrong with birth control pills if you don't have any high risks, but you are putting something into your body, so that's up to you.
2006-08-05 03:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by virtuouskelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋