Why do girls make it so important to wait for sex?

Question

Why do girls get all the control in the sex deparment? And y do guys all of a sudden become labeled as the bad guy if we don't like our girlfriends decision? Y don't we get some say in the matter?

Answer 1

There are men out there that are only looking to use women for their own pleasure. No self respecting women would allow herself to be used that way. It takes time to develop a relationship and for the woman to be sure that the man is not just using her. (For some it may even take as much as marriage.)

With that being said, I think that both men and women have control over sex. If someone (male or female) does not want to engage in sexual activities, they should have the right to refuse to do so. It is a persons right to have control over their own bodies as long as it does not hurt others.

Answer 2

Sorry friend, l have not a clue of what you are talking about. Like a an old head told me back in the days coming up. Don't chase the P**** , let the P**** chase you. If a woman is " making " you wait for sex, then she is probably Fing someone else ( man or woman ) or going at it with a " toy " of some kind. Women need it more than us , F what you heard. She is not waiting period. BTW why did you steal my avatar LOL.

Answer 3

You didn't make it clear about what she is controlling. I believe everyone should tell their partner what they like and what they don't like. But in the end I don't believe anyone in a relationship should have control of another, but their self control is their right.
Girls are different about sex, if you've noticed, read some of the postings. Sex to many men is as casual as and sometimes quicker than a few big sneezes. Women look for affection or passion, men like a quick lay.
f it's a big deal, talk with her and tell her it's important to you perhaps you can compromise. Ask her what she likes and doesn't like. If it's a small deal, like I don't feel like sex tonight get over it.

She made a decision, you don't like it, getting mad does nothing for your relationship, talk it over when you've cooled down.

Answer 4

The biggest reason is that society has pinned women who sleep with a guy too fast as sluttly. Even though this isnt always true, many women feel they are being that way if they hook up too fast. In additon, women do have the sex drive of most men. So it is easier for them to say no to sex, and really get to know the person they are dating.

Answer 5

Everyone gets to have control over their body. . . . its called being responsible. Some folks don't want to have sex with someone they are not comfortable with. If a guy is not willing to wait that speaks volume about his priorities concerning the relationship. Let's say someone does get pregnant . . . . do you know and love this woman enough to want her to be the mother of your children. If the answer is no, than you probably shouldn't be having sex.

Answer 6

Women are more dominant that's why you men know you "have" to listen to us so dont complain and just deal with it..LOL....
As for your first question some women find it important to wait maybe because they're scared or insecure.

Answer 7

Because women control the earth!

Answer 8

if you have any say in the matter, then you are considered a RApist. you don't want to go to jail or be a rapist right? it is our bodies and if we don't want to give it up, we just won't give it up! you may have a say with call girls. at times they may refuse you too. lol

Answer 9

Because we're the ones who get labeled "WHORES" and "SLUTS" if we are not virgins. It called a double standard. Also, we're the ones who get to suffer through pregnancy! YAY!

Answer 10

Many guys feel this way too. Even if a girl is not realigous they do! IT JUST GOES TO SHOW THAT WOMEN HAVE MORE WILLPOWER THAN MEN!