Now i always *** with a man and when i use a vibrator or fingers,but i cant seem to have an orgasm when my Gf gives me oral,i can if its a guy but not my gf i generally enjoy lesbian sex better i love being with a woman it turns me on so much but why cant i ***,i have been faking it for the last couple of times because my gf gets mad if i dont ***...is it me or her?wheres the problem?
2006-08-05 03:09:20 · 14 answers · asked by partygirlcass 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It sounds like you still have reservations about lesbian sex. And if you don't orgasm, I don't see how it would be more pleasurable for you. A lesbian is a terrible thing to waste. It breaks my heart.
2006-08-05 03:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either your GF is doing something wrong, or you have some kind of mental block as far as women goes. You should tell her what feels good to you so you can ***, stop faking it and tell her what you want.
2006-08-09 02:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by ~?~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with being turned on. You stated that it does turn you on. The problem is that this particular woman isn't doing it properly and it is up to you to let her know. I can't stand ppl who fake it. All you are doing is making it harder and harder to correct the situation. If you really do want to have an orgasm then let her know and try different methods.. you know what I mean.
2006-08-05 11:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by BeachBum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not turning you on,
it is not you.
it is how you feel,
or do not get to feel,
Is there other issues with your girlfriend?
CAN YOU TALK TO HER, WITHOUT HER GETTING OFFENDED?
If she gets "mad" THEN that is your answer, it means that
you can not relax and be you,
and if you ar busy being worried about upsetting her, hurting her feelings,
and if you "fake it" so she won't get mad,,
You are busy accomodating her feelings, and that seems to resolve the issue and keep her happy..
but at what price,
You can't do that,
you can not be with a person intimately, and just do and say what they want out of kindness,,
you need to get to the "grass roots" OF TH SITUATION\
otherwise your sex life along with the friendship will sulffer
a great strain.
good luck
2006-08-05 10:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your breasts look really hard from the implants, if that is your picture.
Maybe you should get a revision surgery and get smaller ones, since the skin is already stretched out, it may have a more natural and attractive look.
2006-08-05 10:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl all can tell is talk to ur gf and tell her the way you feel
trust me i now what you mean,i love lesbian sex too it is so good
2006-08-05 11:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by bonnie3bd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably a difference in technique hon.
If you pay attention to exactl HOW she does it, its very likely you can teach her now to get you there.
Just remember the times you did orgasm and how it was done.
2006-08-05 16:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like Lesbian sex as well.
2006-08-05 10:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're with the wrong gal. Or you need to communicate better and explain the problem.
2006-08-09 03:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you direct her head next time she wants to do it to you or when she touches a bit that feels really good just ask her to keep doing it there and not move if none of that works ask if she wants to play a game of follow my leader and you show her on you where you want her to go and not to
2006-08-05 11:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋