I'm always bothered what people think of me
2006-08-05 03:07:07 · 44 answers · asked by dollar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, you can be a bit pushy sometimes...
how are we supposed to know?
2006-08-05 03:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jay Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-05 03:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Chikky D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need confidence and have to realize that people will talk about you for the rest of your life including family and friends. that is part of life which later on will make you a stronger person. it s okay to feel like this sometimes but after a while it may be a problem. Most of the time people may think or say bad things about you because THEY ARE JEALOUS OF YOU. and unfortunately, YOUR FAMILY ARE HATERS TO. guess what GOD made you unique and people want something from you that they can not have. Be proud of yourself and LAugh at those who ENVY you!
2006-08-05 03:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by averilyn06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never let people bother you, I always found that when someone says something negitive to me I just ignore them. I know for myself that I'm a better person , keep your chin up and, don't let these kind of things bother you ok.
2006-08-05 03:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think you're alone in that concern. I think many ppl are concerned with what others think. But I think realizing that there will always be someone funnier, prettier, smarter, faster, richer etc can help you get over that concern. Also being *content* with who you are will take you a long way.
2006-08-05 03:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by imputedgrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why let it bother you? Life is tooo short to let others opinions bother you - most likely they are just too self-conscience about their own selves, or actually jealous of you. Be happy with yourself and forget everybody else's opinions.
2006-08-05 03:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time worrying about what others think of you, just worry about making yourself happy. If they thin bad of you, you do not need them anyway. There are plenty of people that love you for you. Make your self happy and grow from the ignorance of others
2006-08-05 03:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't care too much what people think of you because it's your life and you shouldn't live for others....If you try to live for other people's "standards" than you have no rewards for your self and will never be happy. Just surround yourself with people who appreciate who you are.
2006-08-05 03:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by muslimah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the judge that matters is you, don't think that what people say about you or think about you is really how they feel maybe its them that have the complex but can't accept it so they bring you down so when everyone score card is ready zero, you hold up that big 10 and when you add it up your points are the only you that counts.
2006-08-05 03:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by doggy105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are bothered about what people think of them. I was like that when I was younger............... as I got older I didn't really care anymore.......... I just was myself. If people liked me or didn't like me it was fine......... At least I was not a phony.
2006-08-05 03:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecure.
--but that doesn't make you less of a person.I still think you're a good person having great personal traits.
You just have to cope up with that negative energy and try to enhance that so you'd feel better.
2006-08-05 03:28:28 · answer #11 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋