Basically i was in a relationship for about a year and a half and it was pretty perfect obviously ups and downs but they made it perfect.i loved him and still do.one night i did something stupid and persued another man nothing happened but my boyfriend found out and is now makin me pay he wont tell me what he wants and i dont know what to do?
2006-08-05 03:03:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I hate to say it, but give him his space. Give him time to get over his pain. Even though you say you didn't do anything, he still feels betrayed in a sense, so if you really want him, you have to wait it out. Reassure him you love him, and that your truly sorry for what you did and if given another chance, you will make sure it never happens again and then sit back and wait. Call and check on him periodically but don't go blowing him up. Give him enough to space to deal and enuf space to miss you. Now if he should choose not to take you back, you're going have to deal with that and make efforts not let it happen your next relationship. Good Luck!
2006-08-05 03:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Free_Spirit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first you have apologize. To show that you are serious about this relationship. And tell him that he means a lot to you. Remind him of all the good times you had together and how empty you would feel without him there. And that fails end the relationship but suggest if you could still be friends because a relationship that lasted so long shouldn't go to waste.
2006-08-05 03:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ladee Bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tried to pursue another man, then your mind is not on the b/f. If you really loved him , you would not have done that. It is your mind and hearts way of telling you that this relationship is not right for you. Time to let go and let both of you move on. If it was perfect, you would not have been looking for something else.
2006-08-05 03:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously took him for granted.
You caused the problem and you will have to deal with it. You showed him that you can't be trusted. Now you've got to prove to him that you are in fact trustworthy.
He must really like you because if it was me, I would have dumped you immediately, changed my phone number, email etc. and never had anything else to do with you ever again.
So you now have to be patient with him. If he forgives you, you had better consider yourself very lucky. He'll probably always have a bit of doubt about you now. Don't blame him, it's your fault.
2006-08-05 03:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some tips on this site on how to get it back on track and how to make it work again
2006-08-05 03:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cheated- he will not take you back... too bad
2006-08-05 03:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋