I'm a very open person and enjoy watching xxx videos once in a while by myself as well as with my boyfrient. I don't own any of this material and don't get it off the internet so i usually rent. I know my boyfriend downloads it from the net and looks at the stuff when i'm not home. Despite my knowing this and being ok with it, why does he have the need to try and hide it from me when i know he does it anyway? Am i justified in being just a bit upset about it?
2006-08-05 02:59:08 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
he should be open and share it with you
2006-08-05 03:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Many women are not OK with it. Why I don't know, but he may want to hide it so not to upset you. Or he could be a conservative that when hiding something makes it feel better.
Either way, I think it would be healthy and more fun to bring it out into the open. For me I would much rather have the real thing as opposed to a picture.
Just another guy.
2006-08-05 10:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Reality 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem with a husband whose mother was a pee pee whacker making everything bad and nasty. Now as an adult he needs to do it and hide it from you to feel worthy in some way. An occasional movie or whatever is one thing but if he is doing it for sexual fulfillment because you do not satisfy his twisted desires then you have serious decisions to make.
where do I send the bill?
2006-08-05 10:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should feel upset. It seems he's replacing you with it when you're not around and the sneaking it like he's cheating makes you feel crappy. Discuss this with him before it's to late. Try to set guidelines.
2006-08-05 10:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by J P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that you know about it? You could just kinda say somethign like "were you looking at porn again?" after checking out his room, and then act like you knew about it all along.
2006-08-05 10:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's downloading GAY xxx.
2006-08-05 10:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you aint satifying him lol
2006-08-05 10:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by Emma H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex sells.
2006-08-05 10:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by mrantenna2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋