I meet this girl on myspace. We went on a lunch date and it lasted for 10 hours. We sat in the restaurant talking the whole time. The conversation was great and she is BEAUTIFUL. There is nothing I don’t like about her. I was with my last partner for 4 years and I have not done much dating since. So I feel out of touch. The next day I called her and we talked for two hours. She said she would call me the next day but never called. This went on for two days. We passed notes on myspace tho. Last night we went to the club we danced together a lot and we were close. We did not kiss. I want her to know that I like her. She said that she is overly analytical and I can be that way also. We both agreed that we come on soft until we know for sure the other person likes us. Should I take action and just tell her that I like her or should I just let things continue.
2006-08-05 02:58:43 · 10 answers · asked by mastapes21 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Let things continue to get a better feel for both of ya'lls intentions. Moving too quickly can push her away, or it can give her an unfair advantage over you because of the way you feel towards her. If she feels the same way, you'll be able to tell. Don't rush yourself just for the sake of finding someone. Remember, all that glitters isn't gold!
2006-08-05 03:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just let it happen but for sure keep dating. I mean there is no hurry right. I know you probably feel excited because it has been awhile but just slowwww down and take it easy. I know very well how fast us lesbians tend to jump into things with all fours. hehe
BUT at the same time, don't let the opporutunity bypass you. For sure get the first kiss out of the way as quick as possible. I recommend a walk on a beach or some romantic private area then just do it.
Good Luck
PS toohevi you dont look like a lesbian.. she said lesbians only :P
2006-08-05 11:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by BeachBum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! Maybe ms right! Try not to rush into anything, but the fact you have spent that much time talking and getting to know each other is really good. While you're trying to get a handle on
the situation, look for red flags now, rather than later. Let her know you really like her and want to get to know her better. Don't want to see you get hurt, specially since she seems so right. My best.
2006-08-09 01:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to open up to her. She isn't going to know unless you say some thing . She might be feeling the same way. Give it a try what can you hurt. Good luck I know from exsperace it not an easy think to do.
2006-08-05 13:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow. you haven't been dating for a while take things slowly enjoy the company of each other and when you are both ready to take things further it will just happen.... allow things to go at there own pace for if you rush it just may not last good luck
2006-08-05 10:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by nobody's perfect ..01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say take is slow don't rush feel her out try to see if she isn't holding out some very important info. you want this to work right? so continue the (i give you give a little ) and it will work out.
2006-08-05 11:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want? are you willing to wait? but at least there was an agreement between you too. why don't just wait, and enjoy her company and see where this leads to. sometimes patience is really rewarding
2006-08-05 10:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by toohevi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should wait until you know she really likes you if you tell her before you are sure you might drift apart so just go with it
2006-08-05 11:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow, take it slow. keep communicating. if you both want the same thing, it will happen.
2006-08-05 11:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont move to fast then she wiil think that your just a hound.
2006-08-07 18:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by glyttrbgg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋