Do you hold a grudge? Are you just absolutely done with that person?
2006-08-05 02:46:23 · 21 answers · asked by Fox Paws 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
DONE! I dont hold grudges, but if someone crossed me and I found out, then to bad, so sad. :)
2006-08-05 02:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Purplgirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... yeah I hold a grudge for ages. And yeah- I get done with that person. My feeling is like love for people who CAN cross me. I don't really care about people who try to cross me that I don't like. So if someone I care about starts messing with me, I pull back and wait to see what they do. If they don't come to their senses and try to talk to me within a couple of weeks, I pull back further. By the second time if they don't care to find out what's up- then I dump them. That includes family members.
2006-08-05 09:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by canuck_chick_2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hold grudges , but I will never trust that person again..If I am crossed by someone, it makes me very cautious around them..If it was someone that I really trusted and they crossed me I would be very hurt and, I wouldn't have anything to do with them, because the trust would be gone..I couldn't pretend that everything was OK..
2006-08-05 10:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by younglady7826 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,not really. I am such a private person that only lets a select few in to my life. If they "cross" me I only want to know why--true friends resolve problems--not hold grudges
2006-08-05 09:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by dawnee_babe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't usually hold a grudge, but I'm really careful with that person. When enough is enough, I'm through.
2006-08-05 09:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say what I need to say, then I'm done. I'm a forgiving person and dont hold grudges. But if that person continues to treat me like $hit, screw'em. I'm not kissing anybodys butt.
2006-08-05 09:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by tmills883 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cross me for the 3rd and you are done. I give chances, but at a certain point I will cut you off forever. I will try not to wish harm on you (because that is bad karma), but I will not allow into my life. You don't exist to me.
2006-08-05 09:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Flyleaf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hold grudges, when I'm done I'm done.
2006-08-05 09:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I hold a grudge for ages and ages ....until i take my revenge then I am done with that person. (i am devil,i know hahahah devil laugh) lol
2006-08-05 09:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by RAINGIRL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they certainly don't make my Christmas card list! It depends on what the supposed offence is...he has to be pretty severe for me to totally turn my back on someone...For most, I just remain civil but put some distance between us.
2006-08-05 09:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by baciandrio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋