its painful even to recant the tale even though its been three weeks since the incident. cut a long story short she held me against a wall and kneed me so many times my left testicle got lodged in the abdominal canal from where it descended all those years ago. the doctors managed to retrieve and save it and im looking to press charges. what do you think of these events and would you have done the same thing in her position?
2006-08-05 02:39:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Your looking to press charges? Your lucky to be alive. If you were my daughter's boyfriend.... well nevermind.
It was very justified.
2006-08-05 03:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by reallyconfuzzled1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after the third time,she should have left you the first time.at the same time she probably was thinking everyone deserves a second chance.i bet you now she wishing she didn't give you a second chance.question,why did you stand there why she kneed you in the balls repeatetly.she didn't trash your place,she didn't damage your car(the common one,if you got one).she hurt you cause you hurt her,she was in pain;so she put you in pain.she must have relly loved you or even had deep feelings for you to stick around for a third time.after you did it the first time and she gave you a second chance that was your warning,the third time you gat the consiquences for doing it again.SUCK IT UP! you know not to do that again with the next person you end up with,because you might not get off so easy next time.
2006-08-12 07:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by chinagurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon hun do you really need to ask that question?
How can you even consider pressing charges - haven't you screwed her up enough, you guys just don't get how bad cheating effects a person do you?!
Stay single if you want to sleep around - you CANNOT have your cake and eat it too!
You have sustained physical pain - but what you have done to this girl emotionally will mess with her for years to come - your nut will be better in no time - she's stuffed for ages.
Leave the poor girl alone and just learn from your lowlife scum actions!
2006-08-05 03:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems in her state of mind at that time you are luck she didn't kill you,I am not sure how I would have reacted,everyone reacts different to different situations,I can only say that she probably really loved you to stick around and wait for you to cheat a third time,when she caught you cheating again ,you shattered her world,I would say if she was never violent to you before this incident,suck it up ,be a man and dont't press charges,seems you really hurt her as well
2006-08-05 02:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by chunga12413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a judge would laugh at you that you couldn't get out of the way...
you bet i would have done the same thing.
drop the issue & don't get another girlfriend for a while until you can be more monogamous.
(notice that was only the 3rd time he was "caught... who knows how many other events there were that she didn't know about...)
2006-08-05 11:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she caught you cheating twice, she should not have continued to be your girlfriend for the third time. I hope you are free and "single" now.
Why were you not able to escape or defend yourself? Did your doctors and all of your friends laught at you?
Do most people that know you, consider you a Looser?
2006-08-05 02:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all do not need to be together. I guess you know that -huh? I can see her being mad, but that was a little harsh. I would not press charges, just stay away from her and try not to cheat on your next girlfriend-lol.
2006-08-05 12:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Third time, huh?
You wouldn't have been in my life after the first time, you were lucky she give you as many chances as she did.
You lucky she only kneed you in the nuts, she could have done much worse.
2006-08-05 02:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't have the right to assault you, and I would say you deserved it, but I won't. She should have dumped your dumbass after the first time. Don't press charges, though, just consider it a hard lesson learned.
2006-08-05 02:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man o man!! And you got it bad, hope she doesn't need to get checked out for any sexual diseases, and you better get checked out as well. Grow up, someday it'll come back on you, then what?? Yes, you ARE a lucky man...I might have done worse.
2006-08-10 19:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by sunnyrays61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋