its painful even to recant the tale even though its been three weeks since the incident. cut a long story short she held me against a wall and kneed me so many times my left testicle got lodged in the abdominal canal from where it descended all those years ago. the doctors managed to retrieve and save it and im looking to press charges. what do you think of these events and would you have done the same if you were in her position.
2006-08-05 02:38:16 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you deserved everything she did to you. because you are a jerk they should have never of "saved it" she is justified because you couldn't keep your dick in your pants. and obviously she is stronger than you so you should have thought twice about what you did what did you think was going to happen when she caught you.... "oh that's okay hun go ahead and sleep with her as much as you want i still love you?" in your wildest dreams. and pressing charges wont hold up in court just think about it, it will be especially difficult if you have waited 3 weeks to press them. grow up and keep your dick where it belongs ... in your pants.
2006-08-12 18:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I believe that she is silly for continuing to date you knowing that you are a cheater, leopard's don't change their stripes.In regard to her assaulting you she is wrong and it would teach her that she can not control you if she were to have some type of consequences for her actions. I don't believe that she was right and once she caught you there was no need to become violent, better to leave you all together then to put her freedom in danger. See I think that in lue of the young lady recently being set on fire for not wanting someone that even YOU need to be respected and unharmed so yes press charges. Are you sure that you were not set up, and ask her did kneeing you help her get over the fact that you cheated.
2006-08-12 13:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by shavonna j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it's not something I would have done, I'm going to say YES it was justified.
When she was kneeing you I'm sure she wasn't like "yes... i am going to lodge his testicle in his abdominal canal!" She was probably like "you're such an ***. how could you do this to me?"
Personally, I think public humiliation is FAR better for cheaters. Or at the very least ruining what reputation they have... but getting them GOOD in the groin is almost just as good.
HAHAHA I bet you're not using those for a while! HAHAHA
2006-08-05 03:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by h0ckeyl0ver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As mad as she was, that is not right. If she is such a woman, she should have better self control and just move on and find some one else.
Well, I have to admit, you can press charges and if I were in her position I would be mad but not to the point where I would do that.
Besides what goes around comes around.
Some day, a woman that you love will cheat on you just as you did. I hope you learned from that situation.
2006-08-12 07:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Know It All 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any type of physical contact and even some verbal attacks are considered domestic abuse in Michigan. It's your human right to not be abused by someone. But, if you're cheating, you shouldn't be going back to her anyways. Obviously your relationship is lacking something. In a healthy relationship you respect each others feelings and don't want to cause any pain to your love, physically or emotionally. Stay away.
2006-08-05 02:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would just like to say, I am surprised thats all she did. Second of all, if you were my man, I would have done far worse after only the first time you cheated. I guarantee the pain you are causing her emotionally is ten times worse than your testicles being shoved 1/2 way up your abdomen.
2006-08-05 02:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by dmercer12679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe physical violence is the way to solve a problem. Hope there were no children involved. I think she was not thinking clearly when she chose to stay in an emotionally abusive relationship, and I think your an asshole, but the fact that she chose to stay knowing you cheated is her problem. There are others ways to handle a problem. If you survived however, I wouldnt press charges....take it as payback and a lesson learned, and move on.
2006-08-12 11:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your avery stupid person, cheating o her three times do u know what that does to a person. however it is partly her own stupid fault 4 taking u back after the first time, she should not have gone that far, she should have knocked u out and tied u to the balcony naked or humiliated in u in some way, that would have been much better, iknow u probably want sympathy, awww diddums but u dont deserve it sorry,
2006-08-05 03:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by English gothic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as i'm concerned you asked for and got a just punishment.
I think that you should press charges. Maybe you pressing charges will make her realize how much of a cretin you are, and finally kick you to the curb. She has been too forgiving and kind to your deceitful butt.
2006-08-12 05:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first off...I cheated on my girlfriend twice within a two week period. I wont beat around it and say it wasn't my fault, cuz it was. Now, your lucky that's all your girlfriend did to you. I have talked to my girlfriend, we are trying to patch things up so that we can be together. I am trying to show my girlfriend that she is special, shes loved and that she is important and cared about. I was in the wrong, but if you two cant work...hobble your nut elsewhere!
2006-08-06 16:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by I-am-spic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋