he says he wants sex and so on,but he cant look me in the eyes,
why?
2006-08-05 02:31:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
somthins wrong.
get out.
hes got issues you dont need.
he needs to work on his issues what ever they might be with out having a girl frend to compact them.
You can not save or help him while being sexually involved.
plus sex out side of marriage complicates any relationship.
exersize self control.
what happens if you get pregnet?and please dont say abortion!
youll both have to deal with the effects of of that too.
tell him you care about him and your self enough to break up.
be gentle and caring but be firm and steadfast.
2006-08-05 02:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
for many reasons i guess.. some say because they're not honest some say because they're scared...
some say because it's hard for another to look into anothers eyes because they're shy.
don't be too hard on him yet.. wait and see, why he might not be able.. then later ask.. if you feel it's nothing betraying about it.
but in my opinion... um if you've two not been together long and he asking for sex.. well like i usually say if you gotta ask.. well then... it's not honest, true to oneself.. it's just not going to be a good experience.
or maybe it will be who knows.. just this sex stuff should come naturally over time.
never ask it just looks like you're impatient and only after one thing.
either that or he's so clueless and really hasn't done it before and is going about it all the wrong way.
um good luck...
i say wait and tell him to gaze into your eyes a bit... read his mind and put him under your spell and have him do the dishes next time.
just kidding.
:D
2006-08-05 09:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him, anyone that cannot look you in the eyes has a problem and you really don't need to be dealing with someone elses problems or insecurities from the beginning of the relationship.
Sooner or later you will be very tired of dealing with it and then it will be a hard break up. So snip it at the bud and be done with it.
2006-08-05 09:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if you were to have sex you would expect him to gaze into your eyes at some point during the proceedings and if he cant do it when hes asking for sex, hows he gonna do it when he gets it?? OR simply ask him give you the respect of at least looking at your eyes when he is asking you for your body.
2006-08-05 09:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's all he wants is sex. He's hiding something from you. Anyone who cannot look you in the eyes has something to hide or they are not telling you the truth about something.
2006-08-05 09:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys, boys,just can't look anybody in the eye's. They have a hard time with this it makes them feel lowered.
2006-08-05 09:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants sex and very little else. Anything else he is telling you is probably a lie. Welcome to interpreting body language 101. Actually a quite useful skill. You might want to pick up a book on it.
-Dio
2006-08-05 09:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by diogenese19348 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the term shy ring a bell? Sex is easy, feelings are lots harder.
2006-08-05 09:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Puppy Zwolle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want sex with him? sorry but i think the ans for this question will give you ans for your qn. may be you close your eyes too just before you(both) start. D.
2006-08-05 09:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by D. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking into your eyes arouses his emotions for you. He probably doesn't like that or is scared of it...
2006-08-05 09:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by David 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋