2006-08-05 02:29:31 · 10 answers · asked by pinkysofty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd be asking why. And then if there are no answers I would ask for counseling and if he says no I would want a divorce because men should still want their wives after the children are born.
2006-08-05 02:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by fourangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I hardly get to sleep with my wife anymore since my son was born because he is always clinging on to her for milk and comfort. It does NOT mean I do not love my wife anymore. After all, she, and my son, are the two most important people in my life, and are the only ones I truly love in my life.
I would urge people not to judge or draw conclusions without looking at the whole context.
Nevertheless, I suggest you communicate with your spouse about your concerns and see if both of you can come up with some arrangements comfortable for both parties.
2006-08-05 09:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take your question that you and your husband does not had sex with you since your daughter was born. Then, you make the move to have sex with your husband, in the other room where he slept. Is normal, since you are his wife. Thus, you also can find out whether he "cheat" you. Go! immediate before further changes.
2006-08-05 10:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a male point of view it is hard to believe but i had a friend exactly the same. i had to ask as his partner was convinced he was having an affair or did not find her attractive anymore. he answered that after watching his first born he looked at her on a higher plan than he was and after the pain that she incured during labour it made him feel cheap to want to make love to her.
he was scared and insecure pretty stupid really. i suggest to talk to your partner as he may be scared who knows.
there is nothing more sexy than a mother from a fathers point of view if you get my meaning so good luck all mothers are beautiful no matter what shape or size.
2006-08-05 09:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by jibber_wibber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be serious, not to offend you, he must be disappointed with your figure now after your girl was borned. But think back, if that's the case, he is really a jerk!
2006-08-07 00:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hopefully hes not cheatting and also he may look at your body different u know men are shallow like that wants you to stay the same size as when u met.not considering woman change durning pregnancy and after good luck
2006-08-05 09:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have both of you communicate with each other on this? In marriage, the most important thing is communiation. I suggest you both have a good talk about this.
2006-08-06 05:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Trecillia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long it's been?
Did you have trouble with the birth? Was he present?
There are MANY factors that may be causing his behavior. You need to talk with him; whether it is physical or psychological. He may need to seek counselling.
2006-08-05 10:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value your marriage, get him to go with you for marriage counselling. I would be concerned for you and your child if he refused this and continued not to sleep with you. You are entitled to your happiness. Do not wait till it is too late.
2006-08-06 02:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked with your husband on this issue? The problem could be with him and not with you?
2006-08-05 09:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by miso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋