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Little dilema here guys, maybe you can help.
My gf/finace of 5 years recently admitted to me twice, she like to flirt at work with guys. that really upset me. She said she has been doing it for a while, and at the same time she defends herself, and also says she loves me and I'm the only one for her, but she said she will not stop flirting. Am I wrong to think that she is getting the attention from me and other men now, and comes home happy to me with them in her thoughts, that's very hurtful. i will always think I'm not in her mind when we are doing things, and it's them.
Help!

2006-08-05 02:09:28 · 14 answers · asked by Vice K 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

14 answers

draw a line in the sand and don't take any of that stuff...she needs to grow up and be committed if she is gonna marry you. Nobody should have towonder what their other half is doing at the work place that is torture...and if she can't comply then you have to make a decision about this girl and look at her with clear eyes not rose colored glasses.

2006-08-13 01:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by blondiebella 3 · 0 0

If you spoke no English and watched your woman wink at another guy and carry on with body movements that suggested something you had no word for in English, but in that language expressed a "crush for attention" - what would you call it?

Flirting, no matter what the language, is cheating.
Maybe a "little" cheating. But it's a small crack on the door
that will ultimately "always" make YOU feel that there is something you don't have that others do, and whether intentional or not: She needs to get it elsewhere and you to approve and accept it simply because others simply say so.

If your "hurt" feelings were as important to her as the "love" she talks about, her actions would change.

If you need others to tell you that flirting is a "normal thing" then you shouldn't be hurt at all.

Confront her.

2006-08-13 01:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by Chip 2 · 0 0

Well your engage for five years right, so maybe she thinks that you don't care that much about her anymore, so she is seeking for your attention, and tries to flirt with other guys and tell you about it to make you jealous, and she'd hoping that you'll give her so much attention like you did during the first days of your relationship, which is a long time ago.

2006-08-12 21:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Artemis 2 · 0 0

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2016-11-03 22:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Dont Evan **** with it if i where u id tell her its over or its over if u dont stop b/c that's not right after u asked her to stop she said no automatically so Dump her b/c what if next shes saying ohh I'm ******* other guys now and I'm not gonna stop trust me man i have allot of Friends who have this happen to and the smart ones use my advice

2006-08-11 21:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Trix 1 · 0 0

Women flirt all their lives if they are that type--whether you're married or not. Guess what, so do men. As long it is just flirting, it probably makes her feel attractive to others. Women love to be admired, even by other women. In fact, women dress to impress women so they can be one up on them.

2006-08-11 18:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0 0

Well i know when I'm with a guy its like there are no other guy on earth then him i know sounds crazy but if she really loves you she would stop for you.

2006-08-12 19:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by susan j 1 · 0 0

Flirting isn't that bad . She still comes home to you right?. As long as there isn't any touching or anything serious I don't think u should worry.

2006-08-05 02:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by *Benny B* 4 · 0 0

honistly I think it depends on what she does for a living, for instance if she works as a bar tender, cocktail waitress or any other position to where if her customers like her she makes more money or tips but if she works in a bank or something it sounds like you need to domesticate her.

2006-08-13 01:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by djcue262 2 · 0 0

well if you feel insecure , then you need to dump her, because if she's doing it now who's to that she want do it once you're married.and then again she trying to make you jealous so that you can go ahead and get married right away

2006-08-13 01:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Linda D 4 · 0 0

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