is it possible to sue someone whom you have eliglable grounds to belive they came between you and your wife / family, and now are even between you resolving this and reforming your family?
basically not going into full thing but, yes we had alot of problems in marriage and did need to split but i dont think we would of if this person had not been there interfering when he only knew not even 10% of everything behind it, now even 6mth i belive he is holding my ex wife back from me and also getting in the way of our childrens best up bringing.
obviously there is more to it but was just wondering is there a law in which i would have grounds to sue under or take this further i have half parental responsiblitie for my youngest child.
2006-08-05 02:04:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't think, so mate. Sounds bad, but why didn't you stop this happening before it got to this?
2006-08-05 02:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by mart8171 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are acting like a child whose lollipop has been stolen. Sorry to be so blunt. She has left you for someone else, and she has the kids. Kids should be with their mum unless she really is a maniac, but from what u have said here she isn't.
Being petty will not help you salvage anything from this - what u need is to accept that this is how it is and maturely enter into discussion to be able to begin a relationship with your kids that is in their best interests. Sour grapes will push you away from the children and surely you do not want this? You have been hurt, so tend your wounds and then put it behind you. Dont let it ruin your life or your children's lives.
2006-08-05 06:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Allasse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not divorced from your partner now, then you soon will be.
Take control of this matter now, if you and your partner wish to remain or reform your relationship, then triangles do not work period.
if this person resides in the same house, and you pay the bills then you have rights in law to ask him to leave . your partner must be in agreement, you have custody of your child then focus your attention on that child, no account resort to violence it will work against you in a court of law, you have to ask yourself these
hard questions. 1 do i want to remain married to a person who does not respect me .2. if i took action against this person it may happen again, there is no trust ,
what action did i do that could have caused this situation,
sometimes walking away with your dignity intact is a lot harder than people imagine. they can strip you bare but they cannot have your dignity unless you let them. forget the law. take care of your children, be strong.regards Lf
2006-08-05 02:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by lefang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a solicitor or go to Citizens Advice, they will be able to tell you. I've never heard of one but I'm sure there are some laws that could be bent to fit the case. Sorry to hear about everything, I hope you get sorted with the kids
2006-08-05 09:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by waftycrank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, first and foremost focus on your child, get some legal advice and get regular access and contact, I don't believe that you can have shared custody of a child now in the UK, one parent always have residential responsbility. After you get that sorted....
Forget about your ex-wife and this other person, just move your life on. She, nor he doesn't sound worth you spending your hard earned cash on.
2006-08-05 02:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by dirtyminx82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge is not the answer. you will only show your ex that you are bitter and hate full.
the way to win her back is to show her that your a better man.
prove that your strong, responsible and caring, even if it means backing off a little.
be great with your kids, don't use them as a tool to get her back but just prove how great you can be as a father a person.
she needs to see the man she fell in love with not the man you have turned into.
good luck x
2006-08-05 06:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by tuppassister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he was in a position of trust to you ie, your lawyer then no. Your wife has her own mind and you have to realise that she is responsible, not him. People of the States try to hold someone responsible for everything. Life throws **** at us... it's all part of the ride.
Good Luck with you Kids though.
2006-08-05 02:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you realy an innocent party in all this?Obviously,we don't know you,but you COULD be a rotten ba****rd,& you COULD deserve all you get.The man involved may be a gentleman.Any-way,as far as I know,there is no law against what he is doing.But if your wife really wanted to go back to you,then wouldn't she be with you now?
2006-08-05 02:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT DO YOU MEAN SUE HIM? just give the b 'stard a beating he is obviously a low life with no morals
2006-08-05 02:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by qcumber man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the way you have to go is mediation. You can mention this man's 'undue influence' to your lawyer. You need proof, though, that he is exerting a negative influence.
2006-08-05 02:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋