me and my boyfriend broke up ... ?

Question

me and my boyfriend broke up, we were going out 5 and a half months and before when we had broken up i was not like i am now. i have lost it. ive been crying since yesterday non-stop. i woke up crying, because i had a dream about everything. the break up was kind of mutual, but still like it doesnt feel right. i know he loves me, because it was hard for both of us, and i love him so much, but idk what to do. like i need to talk to him but now he left for vacation today and im scared that i wont be able to talk to him in time. any advice on how to control my feelings? i mean i love him and i want him back so bad, and i know he will probably take me back but i hate not being able to talk to him. and everything that i see always reminds me of him and its just crazy. help?

Answer 1

Move on....You will do better!

I'm sure that you are one HOT lady!

=)

Answer 2

First of all, breaking up hurts. It's the polar opposite of the elation felt from love. Embrace it. Get a bowl of ice cream, get your nails done, take care of you right now. Second, it's not the end of the world. Now's a chance for you to think about you, what you want, what you need, what you like. No one else's feelings are involved at this point. Give it a week or two and if you feel like you're not getting any better get help. Also, don't be afraid to thank God for the happy times and the good memories, and even just to be able to have felt what love truely is. Some people walk through life and never know these things.

Answer 3

Dear Yourad,

I beleive that when we brake up we tend to only remember the happy days and not the bad ones. You need to think before you do anything if the decision was right or not and when you do that make sure you be clear on what yu expected from him. If you are sure that the decision was correct to break up, then begin relaizing that if we miss things that we never used when we are about to throw them away, it's nature. So it is normal to him and because during your releation you pulled back from things you use to do you have no idea how to fill the time he filled for you. Talking , laughing even arguing. Thins that you use to do don,t interest you anymore and that is also normal, with every experince we change a little. Once you accpted that find your new life pattern and just like a bar of soap with every day you that you wash your hands with it, it gets smaller. Until one day it is to samll for you to use. Thats how we get over things ( at least I think)
Good luck

Answer 4

dear, yourrad_letsmakeout♥
i understand how you feel, to lose the one you love. and i feel your pain; you feel like crap. but it's okay, you'll love again. you'll find someone else and forget him, because this new guy loves you more than your bf ever did, which will make your love for him stronger than ever. but right now, you are in a depressive slump, which isn't good to be in 24/7.
listen to some upbeat music, it'll get your mind off of things. think jessica simpson and a public affair. she took her time to grieve, then got back in the ring like the breakup never happened! you can do that too, but it will take time. "only time can heal a broken heart" said me and some dead poet guy. this dude made a terrible mistake, cause you sound like one of the nicest gfs in the world! i hope i helped you, and i am really sorry about your breakup.

dani

Answer 5

It's probally better that he left so you didnt do anything rash. The first few days of a breakup is always rough but if you guys broke up mutally there must be a good reason why. Just give yourself some time, your head will clear and you'll realize why your better off without him. Not to mention calm down it wasnt that long of a relationship

Answer 6

men ay, so annoying i thaught me and my guy had split 4 good, but the other day he told me he missed me adn ditto, we habve made up now thank god. it was horribal not being able to talk to him. i felt lost adn alone, i have never felt this way about someone before, and i have never loved anyone 4 more than a year, sodont worry hun things blow over eventually. you will kiss adn make up adn you will wonder wat all the fuss was about. i kno its hard adn deppressing you feel empty adn like life is just a load of b******s but even if u do not get back together, the pain heals adn tommorow is another day, only u can make you happy at the end of the day, and i am sure there are loads of guys who want a lovely girl like you, so dont worry its his loss, always tell urself that adn ull be alrite kiddo!!!!

Answer 7

all i can say is move on. ill tell u about my relationship. my ex wouild brek up with me alot we would never stay together for 2 months at a time well day before yesterday he broke up with me again i do cry alot. and i cant control my anger i dont know what to do but i do know that even though i can never love anyone else as much as i love him i will never date him again he has my emotions all ****** up i am at the point where i dont know what to do but ill figure something out and so will u.

Answer 8

IF YOU BOTH STILL HAVE FEELINGS WHY DID YOU BREAK UP MUTUALLY? ARE YOU SURE ITS LOVE AND NOT JUST BECAUSE THERE ISN'T ANYONE TO TAKE HIS PLACE YET THERE IS A DIFFERENCE. YOU SHOULD TELL HIM HOW U FEEL WHEN YOU GET THE CHANCE BUT FOR NOW YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE U KNOW WHAT U WANT.

Answer 9

just find something to do, hell be back and the crying, god that is a really bad feeling i know ive been there. i cried for weeks. but you know him and i got back together and it all worked out. just use this time to think and figure out what you want. there had to be a reason why you wanted to break up.

Answer 10

Give your heart some time to heal. I know breakups are painfull, so just cry it out and try and do soemthing fun to keep your mind off of it.

Answer 11

well if you really like him tell him how you feel about him and maybe you guys will get back together.i mean you guys have been going out for 5and a half months already. and maybe deep down inside him really really really likes you.