my bf left me the last week , we were in love .. i think he still loves me but he doesnt know if he can marry me or not !!!! so he told me we ve to break up , my reaction was so bad when he told me .. he talked to me after that and i told him that was so easy to forget him!!!!!! i love him he s a perfect guy , shell i call him or let one of my friend do that ?????? ( iam a foreigner sorry if there s mistakes )
2006-08-05 01:31:57 · 12 answers · asked by magic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he aint so perfect honey... I would cut my loses and move on you'll find "true" love one day... you shouldn't have to fight with it every step of the way. If that is the decision he has made then he has to live with it. I'm sure his decision was painful for you but why give him the chance to hurt you again. This shoud be incite into how he might be in the future. Good luck on what ever you decide.
2006-08-05 01:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's insecure about the next step, is because he never loved you to start with. He just used you. Is the kind of guy that will always break it off as soon as asked for marriage. It's called; Commitmentphobia.
I think you shouldn't be suffering a guy who doesn't like you enough. Move on and get someone that really does.
2006-08-05 08:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, what you have told him is just right, its because you really got hurt and the reaction is normal. If he truly loves you he will marry you. Did you ask him why? I think you deserve to know atleast why he doesn't know if he can marry you or not. if its not reasonable then forget him. Don't waste your time on him.
2006-08-05 08:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Amani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love you dont think,, u should so know and feel it, he dumped you, he did not know if he coudl marry you? wht sort of nerd is he? @ least he told you that, move on.... move on..... life is a journey not a destination move on.... yr stronger than this..
2006-08-05 08:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he dumped you I'd say just move on and forget about him. Why do you want someone that doesn't want you?
2006-08-05 08:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants you on the sidelines no good forget him move on
2006-08-05 08:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a heart to heart talk with your boyfriend, if you two can reconcile, that would be great. If not, then move on with your life.
2006-08-05 08:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs to miss you distance makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-08-05 08:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Demtec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him and apologise to him and try to get him love u again
2006-08-05 08:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by Janani . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give each other space .
if he is not sure neither should you be.
2006-08-05 08:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋