i have a group of friends and they think i still like them but i dont i like another group of friends. Here is the problem i cant leave my group of friends without been mean because the group i want to go into will have me in their group if i have no friends but not if i do, so i have to get rid of my friend without been mean so i can go into the other group and i dont know how, this sounds weird but help me please. I would greatly appreciate it thanx
2006-08-05 01:04:38 · 12 answers · asked by sweetie pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be negative about ur current group...do criticize their views all the time....tease them......do not agree with them at any matter.......and dont let them know that u r doing all this to leave them..........after some time instead u leave them...they will leave u actually...its for sure..try it.
2006-08-05 01:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This other group will only accept you if you have no other friends? That's odd at best and I'd think about it for quite some time before joining if I were you.
Odd, odd request and not just a bit controlling. You should be able to decide how many friends you have and who they are in this situation, not the "new group".
Good luck! :)
2006-08-05 01:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by this_isridiculous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there's no nice way to be rid of a group of friends. Simply be brave enough to tell them the new group is what you've been looking for and go on. IMHO, no one should limit you to chose one or the other, that's just lame. But if you're OK with it, then good luck.
2006-08-05 01:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So silly but i have some suggestions for ya
I can slay them all for you just give me the adress
You can just be honest & tell them that you don't wanna be with them anymore & it's the best way cuz whatever you'll do they'll hate you for this.
Think this through before doing anything cuz maybe you're wrong & the friends you have nnow are better....
Do as me i'm a Rogue Agent & don't have any friend so i don't have to worry about anyone
2006-08-05 01:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Yagami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R problem can be solved - 1.By making u r mind stable,i.e., either to join another group or not.2. By comparing both groups.
2006-08-05 01:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by satya k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi didi your problem is very common, went through the same thing at your age and if i could go back and do it again here's what id do, "not give a damm". we care so much about this stuff when were young that we can't believe how we acted, how much time we spent analyzing every single thing some idiot throw our way, how every insult we got "MIGHT TURN OUT TO BE TRUE" and "PROBABLY WHY WE DON'T GET ALONG AND HAVE FRIENDS" ive seen jerks that treated people and their friends like scum and still did better then me, it certainly wasn't because i was worse then they were, its because people, especially young people, are afraid! they're afraid to be marked for hanging with the wrong guy/girl they're afraid of social pressure, and they're afraid of rumors. your "friends" might have taken a chuckle at you, but when that guy showed up, they froze. force yourself(i know its hard), to not care! words are cheap coming from these people, giving them any kind of value is a mistake waiting to happen. don't concern yourself about getting friends, just be ready when the "real" ones show up, and even then don't be afraid to throw them away if they cross the line, if they do that, they aren't worth keeping. as for the bullies, yeah... your going to have to fight, wish i could tell you there's a better way, but there isn't. focus on hand strength, the wrists and fingers, do at least 1 thing a day to train them(look up videos on youtube and articles). its not about punches, its about weak points (fingers,eyes neck crotch) and if some nobody ever tells you to "come over here" you replay "you, come over HERE!"
2016-03-26 23:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i wouldn't want the new group of friends, true friends don't tell you who you can or can't be friends with. I don't know about you, but i don't let my friends tell me how to live my life. i'm sure this isn't what you wanted to hear, sorry just being honest. Why can't you be friends with both groups?
2006-08-05 01:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like any person then nobody will force you to be with that person. In this case, be honest to yourself and think yourself where you want to be in. if you don't like them then start avoiding them with reasonable reasons. And talking about the people you want to be with are means. because they will be with you only if you fulfill their condition of being alone to join them. You know better who are best for you. think twice before losing any of the group.
2006-08-05 01:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you do not want to hang out with them anymore. But say it nicely.
2006-08-05 01:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by jonathanhung9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wipe out all the memories first , if you can do , there is no problem further.
2006-08-05 01:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋