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they're always saying that stuff's gay and im not sure if they'll accept me the way i am

2006-08-05 00:44:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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I wouldn't some will be cool with it but a lot of other kids might decide to kick your A$$!

2006-08-05 00:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0 0

nicely there have been golf equipment on the faculty i went too that grew to become into GSA (gay promptly Alliance) and there will be your human beings to stick up for you if somebody could be that ignorant to conquer you up over your sexual determination, and btw, extreme college isn't something like it sort of feels. I stay in the outskirts of Chicago and yeah some human beings have been given bullied, yet seems such as you have friends? The gay little ones at my previous extreme college (homestead schooled now) had the main friends. its in comparison to there are "clicks" in basic terms in lunch from time to time. in basic terms carry on with your human beings and don't mess with no person you cant take! sturdy good fortune.

2016-11-03 22:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Okay, let me tell the mother of all answers on this question, Okay the thing is I was also in that situation at school, but, I decided not to tell anyone, and I gratuated from high school (three years ago) and still I haven't told anyone and with me, I don't think its important to tell anyone about whats happening in your bed, so its now five years since I've know and I had sex about six times with this guy and he's not telling anyone so I'm fine with it, because when people see us the think we are friends so thats it... choaw

2006-08-05 01:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The world seems to move in clicks, Just like when I lost some friends when they found out that I was going hunting, three or four of what I considered very close friends decided that I was partaking in a behavior that was not acceptable to them. well this really hurt me but I moved on, and my closest friends stayed open minded and I moved on, so I think that when you come out you can expect some eye brows to be lifted, and even certain groups of people to poke and make fun, you see it happens every day, and not just to gay people, so please try not to make it a gay thing. remember that people will always find things to talk about, all it has to be is something different from them and boom!!!!! something to talk about, like skinny kid V jock, or rich kid V poor, or smart kid V slower, and this dose not end there, politics, looks, religion, jobs, so if your prepared to be in a "group" of people that yes you may be picked on, remember that the beauty that is in your heart will take you to places that only others will be only to dream of. best wishes in your life's journey.!!!!!!!

2006-08-05 03:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by Givingitthought 2 · 0 0

Tell them like this,"look you guys,I kno we've been friends for a while,but I kno homosexuality is something yall are not to aproving of,and the truth is,I'm gay.Ya'll can laugh,tease me,hate me or w/e,but that's just the way I am,because it's not like I would try anything with ya'll,it's because I wanted to make sure you guys know the truth about who I am.I hope you guys can understand that."That's pretty much all you need to say,and if they can't accept it,their not true friends.

2006-08-05 00:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Have Ya Tried The Normal Life?GEEZ

2006-08-05 00:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why do you think you need to tell them?Do you think they are ready to hear that from you. People are very closed minded and they may push you away. Unless you think they are ready to know that just come right out and tell them. If they love and care about you it should make no difference. Good luck. Be strong.

2006-08-05 00:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by bsnana 3 · 0 0

Depends on your age & your friends! The best way is to just be honest. You'll find real people to accept you for who you are.! Good luck!

2006-08-05 00:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nicolle D 1 · 0 0

It's really none of their business, you don't have to tell them anything. If your secure enough in yourself just don't hide it, when they are checking out girls check out guys, Be careful there are a lot of narrow minded bigoted people out there, and some can be violent.

2006-08-05 00:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0 0

just be true to yourself.
it doesn't matter what they say....
if you keep it secret very long,you'll not only hurt yourself but others too!
people that is true to you will accept you for who you are,
you'll know your true friends then.
but sometimes you just have to give time for them.

2006-08-05 00:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by darknight 2 · 0 0

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