What should I do in a situation like this...?

Question

I really like a girl who I am already really good friends with. I'v known her for 2 years. I think she likes me more than friends too, because she does things with/to me that she doesnt do to others. This is one example: (this is all light hearted, play) I say something that I know will anoy her (just messing) and she does that look ( the fake anoyed look girls do) but instead of a hand on the hip, she comes right up to me,( in a fake threatening manner) our bodies are almost touching, I put my hands on her shoulders to push her away ( to be honest, I kinda left them there a little too long), but she doesnt seem to mind the contact. What does this mean? Does she like me? What should I do in this kind of situation, to let her know I dont mind her being close, or how can I make a point of touching her more, without seeming like a perv?

Answer 1

Dude, she likes you.

Next time she gets in your face, instead of pushing her put your arms around her... Then ask, "Oh yeah? Now what are you going to do?" Ball is in her court then... if she isn't cool with it, it is still light-hearted fun.

Answer 2

In my experience woman take that sort of 'playing' purely platonic. She has a deep trust with you and you should be very careful not to take advantage of that trust, lest you destroy a great friendship. I would say from the brief details of your account that she is looking to as merely a dearly close PLATONIC friend and nothing more. I could be wrong not knowing the entire details of the situation or either of your's personalities. Best of luck to you, maybe just be straight up with her and ask if she thinks there could be a 'next' level to your's relationship.

Answer 3

Ask her out if you like her but be careful that she really do all this things just because she likes you too. because most of the girls do it either because they are broad-minded or because they are afraid of others calling her narrow-minded. Girls find boys as a trustful friend compare to girls so they donot want to lose freindship with them at any conditions. BE CAREFUL. SHE MIGHT BE IN SAME CONDITION

Answer 4

Sounds like to me her body language is saying she's open and enjoying the contact. Next time, instead of pushing her away, just pull her closer up against you and hug her...see how she reacts.

Answer 5

Give her a quick kiss. See how she reacts. If she is speechless but smiles it's a good sign.

If she says "Ewwww!" and wipes the area where you kissed then it's a bad sign.

If she reacts any other way, ask us in here and we'll interpret for you.

Answer 6

well...i felt that way before..
here's the thing..
try to talk to her and ask what's really goin'on..
dont let it happen as times goes by..
for she myt be hurt in the end,,
probably..there is an misinterpretation between u guys..
and i guess this would be the best time for both you..
who knows...?

but if its not..forgive and forget!!
friendship & life must go on..

finally..its better to be hurt than to hurt someone!!
i guarantee you..


c'mon..

Answer 7

Maybe it will be better if you will have a heart-to-heart talk, you can't really know what's going on in her mind. so, you can't tell what's her feeling unto you unless you will hav a serious talk about ure feelings.

Answer 8

shes seems to enjoy it. go ahead. if shes a really good friend, she'll just stop u gently.

Answer 9

for cryin out loud! tell her what you feel, but if you think it'll ruin your friendship, keep it to yourself.. until you burst out.. and there you go..
just get it over with.. or you'll die of frustration..

Answer 10

ask her if she likes u 1st...if she says yes den ask her out duhhhhhhhhh