comparisons between sending kids to nursery and leaving kids with maid at home.
2006-08-04 23:53:17 · 4 answers · asked by e-qa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thats is a good question that in my view would require a lot of serious thought. You only included two possible options thus that is all that can be considered.
I do suppose I must first consider the qualifications of the maid and her ability to care for and to treat the children as if you were the one caring for them. I have seen many who really later in life have more respect for the maid than they do for the parents because of the maids care during the growing years.
If it is a priority for you to educate the children at an early age about the ways of the world, then the nursery may be the best choice. In that case I would be very careful in the selecting of the nursery.
I am sorry but in my opinion both have good and bad points. I like the stay at home and care for your own children because they were given to you by God, but you did not give that option.
Only to make a choice I would probably choose the maid rather than the nursery for the nursery is a business and the maid at home is not. I feel I could have more direct control over the maid and the children in the home situation and less headaches.
2006-08-05 00:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by cjkeysjr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know the ages of the kids you are talking about. However, if the children were of age 1 and up, if I were fortunate to have a maid.. I would still want my children to go to the daycare or nursery for the simple reason, there they could have exposure to other children, learn how to share, play together, broaden their horizons somewhat better than with the maid. In my mind, a maids duties would be of household chores, etc. not necessarily tending to children.. if this is a nanny as opposed to a maid, then I think I would still want my children to have that important social skills at an early age. I feel that it is very important for them to learn the social aspect of life as early as possible.
2006-08-05 00:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust the maid? Does the maid mind babysitting? I think it's best for a little one to spend their first year at home. After that nurseries are good because it teaches kids how to be with other kids, sharing etc.
2006-08-05 00:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit work and stay home. Your children need you not a maid. Why did you have children if you do not want to nurture them?
2006-08-04 23:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by doglas p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋